Culture shock since I started dating

Coming from /r/theredpill I didn't like women, didn't trust them, and only wanted to fuck them to prove I could. Trp had some good points about not being clingy but according to them women were always looking for a better deal, sorting men into castes based entirely on what they could get out of them, and dating was like disarming a bomb. Then I actually started dating (with the help of good looking loser, a site I consider the real redpill). So far I haven't dated a woman I didn't like, including the one who catfished me, and while I offer to pay for the date every time they rarely take me up on it (and the one who did brought weed) I'm still not comfortable with the idea of settling down with one woman and probably never will be but I like being around them and..well, am I missing something?

 

A little late for that now that I'm sterile

 

The gold diggers seem pretty easy to avoid, plus I don't really have much to steal. The main reason I don't want to settle down is because I didn't get to do anything fun in my 20s and most of them did.

I still think there's a lot of men who never, ever get to explore their sexuality (among other things) they just spend their school years hitting the books, then work long hours trying to scrape together a nest egg so the can settle down with the first woman they date. No thanks.

 

29 and still looking at a life of dead end jobs

 

tell her you can't afford it for a week and see what happens I guess. I need more details (and probably experience)

 

I wanted to talk to the women about it but yeah this is a better place for the thread

 

That's going to be quite an undertaking. There's a reason why players (or wannabe players) consider location-independent income the holy grail