So I've had a good 4 years of porn under my belt and I'm currently 19 years old. I had my first girlfriend a year ago and I didn't have a problem with getting hard and completely dominating her in bed. She loved how I took control and was aggressive with her body. I'm wondering about the effects of this reboot, in terms of the way I have sex with women. Is my dominance in the sack due to my consumption of pornography, or is it just my natural way of having sex. Because I love dominating my girlfriend, partly because I feel like a man, and because she reacts very positive to it. I just don't want to turn into a guy who prefers the same sex everytime and isn't spontaneous. I want to be the same guy who is passionate, intimate, kinky, and horny for my girl just as I am now. But of course without this terrible addiction of PMO'ing... Any info or experience on this fellas?
I am only a day in NoFap. But, I believe NoFap makes you more confident, energized, and have humble or not-so-humble aggression. Aggression and domination is almost always a male's trait (testosterone stimulates this, and increases more of it. Testosterone is also what is responsible for sex drive), and heterosexual and bisexual women are drawn to this kind of trait. They feel protected, more feminine, and submissive.. Quite frankly, I believe this is normal sex. You guys have high frequencies with each other.
I love when my husband is aggressive in bed. I also love, and crave, tenderness in bed. I like variety. I like experimentation. Sometimes he likes it when I grab him and haul him into the bedroom and attack him. Are you like this due to P? You need to reboot to get the answer to your question.
Actually the first time I was rough in bed and kind of apologized to her, but she said that there no need and that it drove her crazy when I was aggressive, good kind of crazy.
Yes that's how we both like it. I always start with tender foreplay and kisses, by then we are both eager to engage in passionate, rough sex. When I'm not feeling in the mood, she'll initiate the foreplay and then I take control. I just don't want to lose this sexual connection we have, because we both love it
