Something that'll probably scare you to not masturbate.

So, I read something that came up into my head that sparked my interest and I was wondering if there is someone that has gone through this, and apparently someone have.

"What if I masturbated next time, and suddenly I got cancer in my dick. I could've been getting real women to have interactions with instead of jacking off all my life"

A man that goes by the name, Alex Duke (quite funny, that's my first name too. Which freaks me out even more), he has been diagnosed with the cancer of the penis. Quite frankly, he was a fairly young guy.

From the source, "The good news was that doctors caught it early enough to prevent the cancer from spreading throughout his body. The bad news was that it was advanced enough that there was only one option: cutting the poor member off."

Now, that scares you. You don't even want to think about losing your dick.

I'm not telling you to lose all emotion tied with your penis. And anyway, you'd still be traumatized if it got cut off (even if you didn't care for it your whole life).

But, I'm saying from this, and this is the most case for guys who are also addicted to pornography: You think with your dick too much. You identify with it too, you're afraid you're going to be laughed at if they saw your penis is not more than 10 inches, and you just want that pleasure from your dick-area. Nothing else. You go auto-pilot, and you feel like you're not in control anymore. And that your penis is your brain.

This is one of the biggest mindset mistakes a bunch of Fapstronaut and where they lose their motivations, and willpower. They blame their relapses for not being in control, and they had their hands on their dick. You got to remember that touching yourself is a choice. What if your dick wasn't there? You wouldn't EVEN have a CHOICE to masturbate because your penis isn't there anymore.

Your non-existent penis isn't "controlling you anymore". Now, you can do this NoFap journey swimmingly. How awesome! Does that kind of sound kind of stupid while you still got your penis? It is.

You need to stop diverting the faultiness of the incident (relapse) to your dick. Saying "it just feels too good. "Or, I got aroused, I couldn't help myself."

"ITS THE PENIS FAULT. THE PENIS FAULT. THE PENIS!!!!! Take this criminal to jail, jury!"

Get out of your head when it's happening, turn off your computer.

The truth, you are ALWAYS in control of what you do. Not your body parts. Your hand and penis don't have a mind of its own. You are in control of your body parts. PFFTT.. WHAT?! You already knew that? Wow!

Then, you need to start manning up and start fucking controlling yourself. It ain't because of your dick, it's because of your pea-brain.

Right now, your streak could be the perfect and endless No-PMO streak, but nah.. but some day in the future, you decided to think with your dick. And you lost all your goddamn hard work that you battled through. You're in hell, so why not keep going?

Think of it like this when you are triggered. "If I didn't have a penis right now, I would have nothing to fap with. So, my [existing] penis isn't controlling me. Now, I realize that I am in control in what I am about to do. I am not going to go auto-pilot and relapse because I AM in control. I am going to exit this [triggering material] now, and do something else that productive".

Think about all the time you have wasted when you were masturbating to pornography or something else, etc.. when you could have put those times to better use, and maybe even found a cure for cancer or got a 6.0 GPA.

Might be triggers below:

To end on a lighter note for the victim, Alex Duke. He is still hapilly with his very supportive and sweet wife. They can still have sex, since they he can use tongue and has a strap-on to still penetrate his wife. They also have intense mental foreplay and as well as physical. I'm assuming that he experimented with his backside, since he still have a prostate. And you can get pleasure in that other way.

 

Thanks, man