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Get Rid of Masturbation through Meditation -Part 1

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by a2230628, Apr 30, 2014.

  1. a2230628

    a2230628 Fapstronaut

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    Sitting in a calm place, eyes close and focusing on your breath is the common meditation method that we know of and we are also told that it helps one getting rid of his/her obsessions and bad habits.

    I wont disagree with but the only problem with such method is that it is too general, while people have specific problems.

    Whatever spiritual illness a person might have or let us say a bad Habit related to his/her personality, will always relate to either Lust (Sexual and other desires), Anger, Greed, Jealousy and scrimping, or Arrogance and proudness.

    These are the base of every spiritual illness and every wrong thing a person does.
    Interesting point is that not everyone is guilty of the above mentioned illnesses !
    in reality one would experience one more than the other.

    If you ask every person to just meditate as generally it is done without considering the specific problem he/she is facing,
    it will benefit but not to the extent it should. It will be time consuming to over come the specific problem for which the doer initially intended to start meditating.

    So each individual with specific problem, obsessions etc he/she is facing needs to be guided to a meditation method that is related to that specific illness or problem.

    I will talk on it in parts so it doesn't get too lenghty and boring -
    or too much to digest for anyone.





    Edit :
    Part 2 - Six subtle Points related to Six Basic Illnesses.

    Part 3 - 3 Steps to Meditate on Subtle Point & control Sexual urges
     
    Last edited: May 2, 2014
  2. MelancholyWeightlifter

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  3. It's not a business. It's not a game. Thread names like that quite piss me off. Whatever how great what you say is. My method might work on some people, yours on others just as much. It's funny, you talk about relaxation but you made me angry. Plus you only talk words without any meaning. I should stop reading what you say, really it piss me off more and more.

    THERE IS NO SECRET OR FASTEST WAY. THIS IS BULLSHIT. IT'S THE SAME AS WHEN YOU TRY TO LOSE WEIGHT. There are plenty of methods. Choose the one that fits you the most. You're unique, and there is only one method right for you.

    I can write in bold too. I even can write in italics. DOES NOT MEDITATING LIKE YOU MAKES ME MY HUGE SUCCESS LESS VALUABLE???? WILL I FAIL IF I DON'T DO YOUR METHOD??? Fuck.

    FUCK METHODS. JUST DO IT. THERE IS NO WRONG OR RIGHT WAY, ONLY YOU CAN KNOW. YOU'RE AN INTELLIGENT PERSON AND KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN GOOD AND EVIL. ONLY YOU CAN DECIDE. You can HELP YOURSELF with meditation, but it's not a method. Don't let marketing fool you.




    I'm sorry. I'm never angry here, so if I say this, I mean it. Maybe it's cause I just watched Thanks For Sharing. I'm sorry for being this angry and categoric. Have a really nice day, a2230628. Stay strong, you started well, amazing if your method works for you!
     
  4. NotAfraid

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    Thanks for reminding me about why I used to despise women. You can't hold your shit together. Your post and your signature also have quite a contrast... It makes you look so hypocritical. And you're a moderator? The fuck? If you were a police, you would probably be shooting people, 'cause you're so fucking pissed, but it doesn't matter, 'cause you're so sorry and you mean it.

    Great going!
     
  5. I already said I was sorry man. It was either this or a relapse, and anyway I was just thinking of coming back to delete my post because it indeed sounds too sour, but yours make me immensely sad. I won't say fuck you, cause that would be mean. So I'll just say have a nice day.

    And what the fuck if I'm a moderator? I don't have the right to be angry? First I'm not a moderator here, second you too can apply I hear Alexander is looking for help. Thanks for making me feel even more like shit. Thanks a lot.

    Ps: contrary to you, I really hope you're going well. Stay strong man! It's not easy. Withdrawals still happen at 120 days.

    The original message sound like an advertisement and I find it misplaced in such a forum.
     
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  6. NotAfraid

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    Allright. I didn't mean to make you feel like shit. Just don't get so emotionally attached to this whole thing, 'cause that's when you start to feel sad because of some random posts on a forum. Doing so will also make this challenge harder.

    The original message sounds like an advertisement, yeah, but a moderator who's acting like a rage bull is also something that I find misplaced in such a forum.

    I wish you all the best.
     
  7. Well it's withdrawals. It's like driving drunk. It doesn't excuse my behaviour, but it explains it. Besides I'm just emotional, there's nothing I can do about it. I was already sad, but your words hurt. Especially when mentioning gender. That was low. There's not much girls here. Thank you very much, I think I manage this challenge pretty easily. It's the other things that are hard.

    I'm only the moderator of the Women and Under 20 section. I never post angry messages. this is the first time ever I enter the anger stage, and obviously it's the only time when I can't control myself. Pfff.
     
  8. stygian

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    Wtf?? This is an Internet forum, anyone can write whatever they want to as long as they are not criticizing someone else. Cocorosie was discussing the content of the first post, there was no personal attack.

    For topics like this, I find the counter very useful. I would like to know more about a2230628's background given being at 3 days. Will be looking forward to that information and what the rest of the method is. To say that it is the fastest method is more than a bit of a claim.
     
  9. a2230628

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    I am sorry that my thread pissed you off, I sincerely apologies for that but I didn't intend to harm anyone's feelings here.

    This is a vast community and many might disagree but please can you be more polite when expressing your views . :)

    I agree with you that it might work for some and may not work for others but I haven't even finished with what I started. There still remains mentioning of the methods that I speak of.
    After which I will love to hear your opinion on it.

    I am not selling anything here and neither am I redirecting people to some other place but I intended to write it in small chunks.

    Please calm down and let me at least finish what I started.
     
  10. a2230628

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    @cocorosie

    BTW I have to mention this , that it was you who motivated me to stop wasting my time on YouTube after I saw your Signature.
    So I would like to thank you for that :)
     
  11. Yeah yeah I'm sorry I'm sorry let's move on. I should have read more what you said and I apologize for making you sound as an advertiser and a moron, and making me sound as a hypocritical bitch with the same occasion. I don't have anything about you, you're amazing for wanting to help. It's just the way it's wrote. It reminds me to much of stuff to lose weight. Are you trying to sell your method? You said not, but it sounds like it. I strongly wish your withdrawals won't be as bas as mine, and maybe I'll even try your method to calm me down.

    About politeness, sorry but no. I was pissed, and I prefer to banish myself a certain time from the forum instead of regretting having said what I said the way I said it.

    You start with a very appealing title, knowing that everyone will come and see it, "BRAND NEW! THE BEST FASTEST, STRONGEST METHOD!", and when we come and see it's just words discussed plenty of times.

    Have a nice day, you'll probably help a ton of people with your method, and that is absolutely brilliant, thank you for that, you're great!

    Again, apologies. I hate to create mayhem here, this forum is my only haven and especially in a thread directed towards meditation, it's misplaced.

    EDIT: haha, I strongly hope you'll do better than me for YouTube! Shit's hard as hell.
     
  12. a2230628

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    English is not my native language so I didn't know if I sounded as if I were selling something,
    Plus my writing skills "Su***ks" so I don't blame anyone here.

    Maybe I did sound like a marketing guy :D ,
    but I just wanted to know if someone was interested or not and then continue with it ,
    since if you are getting people commenting on your posts (it sort of motivates you to write more).
     
  13. I'm sorry for completely changing the subject. Like MWL said, you've peaked my interest! I'd actually really be interested in what you have to say, please share. I'm starting to try meditation and an actual insightful guide wouldn't be misused. I apologize for the last time. English is not my mother tongue either :)
     
  14. a2230628

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    NO, and what is there in meditation to sell ?
    I don't think so anyone would pay me to give them information that is already available everywhere.
    I just think maybe it is not known to the extent as the "General Method "is.


    Patience :) , I will mention everything here without playing around with words.



    I did cheat a little,
    I watched the 2 TedX videos again that brings everyone here during the time I had to refrain from YouTube but I think that shouldn't be counted as wasting of time.
     
  15. It's not necessarily "selling with money", it's a bit like proposing an idea firmly and being convinced it's the only way that works.

    I'm no moderator of this section, but if you want I can ask that all these nasty posts are deleted. I don't want to waste your tread and I was in absolute danger of self harm relapse due to withdrawals so it would be good to me as well to forgot about what happened. Do you want me to ask?
     
  16. Kwizl

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    I want to start meditating today
     
  17. a2230628

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    I did say other methods work :) didn't I ? All I said was " A bit " Slow when it comes to trying to get rid of specific illness.

    No it is okay :) ,
    Since it was just that English isn't our first language,
    we had a communication gap maybe.

    But things have cleared up so everything is fine now.
     
  18. I actually think I was so angry to read "secret and fastest" that I didn't saw "through meditation". That was my last post on this thread, keep being awesome, stay strong, peace and have a nice day.
     
  19. a2230628

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    Part 2 - Six subtle Points related to Six Basic Ilnesses.

    Previously I mentioned about 6 illnesses that are root of every wrong doing.
    I also mentioned that there is a specific way of meditation to get rid of them.

    Since this forum is about abstaining from PMO,I will mention the method that is relevant to it.

    Know that there are six subtle points (psycho-spiritual "organs") , which in easy English are point located within a person.

    If meditated upon these points, will enable one to overcome spiritual diseases related to these subtle points, namely Lust (Sexual and other desires), Anger, Greed, Jealousy and scrimping & Arrogance and proudness.

    These six subtle points are parts of the inner self just as organs are part of the body.
    Our interest in this thread will be What/Where/How should I meditate in order to overcome P & M.

    The first subtle point is related to "Lust (Sexual and other desires)".
    Meditating on this point one can overcome obsession connected to it.

    This subtle point is located in the left of Chest, just above where the pumping heart is located. It is also named after it -
    but the difference is that this point is more of Spiritual and related to your inner-self.

    When I mention Sexual desires, I don't mean healthy relationship with your spouse but ones which is obsession and harming your Brain and your health (Pornography, Masturbation etc).

    So summarizing what I said so far -

    *There are 6 root illnesses which then has many branches to it.
    *They can be gotten rid off by using Specific Methods of Meditation.
    *There are 6 Subtle Points connected to these illnesses.
    *The first subtle point is located at the left side (lower) of the chest.
    *The Subtle Point is connected to Lust (Sexual and other desires).


    Please comment if you don't have confusion with anything

    [Close the thread and continue with other threads if you aren't interested (Don't Hijack this Thread)]
     
  20. a-s-d-f

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    You must live in a very sad, sad world. Why would you log on to websites focused on self improvement and tear people down?

    Edit for all to see: I am only replying because NoFap is a supportive community and I think misogyny and bigotry in general have no place here. Correct me if I'm wrong.
     

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