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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Tori S., Jul 17, 2016.

How do fall back in love?

  1. leave everything and start fresh

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  2. take babysteps and slowly stop camming

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  1. Jul 17, 2016 #1
    Tori S.

    Tori S. Fapstronaut

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    I'm gonna keep this short and sweet! The reason I joined this site is because things have been shaky in my relationship. The love has dies everyday slowly, which pains me because some part of my still loves him. I'm in such a dark place right now that first I would spend hours engaging in online porn. But now a few months ago I started caming which has been a true addiction. My boyfriend has no idea of this and I seriously need help at letting go but its tough because I enjoy the satisfaction of it. #sadbuttrue
     
    Tori S., Jul 17, 2016
    Tori S., Jul 17, 2016
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  2. Jul 17, 2016 #2
    bigman73

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    Well I have been in a similar position as you but in my case to dumped my to be girlfriend, but I found my self lost.I was also camming on websites just to get attention but I geuss I am over it now(hopefully).
     
    bigman73, Jul 17, 2016
    bigman73, Jul 17, 2016
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  3. Jul 17, 2016 #3
    Tori S.

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    Well I'm glad!
    any pointers?
     
    Tori S., Jul 17, 2016
    Tori S., Jul 17, 2016
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  4. Jul 17, 2016 #4
    bigman73

    bigman73 Fapstronaut

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    Well I thing this habit is mainly based on lack of attention. More user on those site would make me happy so attention is all we need ,nothing bad about it but it does not mean we need to cam .Few points which worked for me are
    1.Attend to more people ,Help them, motivate them and so on...
    2.Meditate ,it game changing
    3.Believe that you are more than piece of meat and bone with intelligence and emotion
    4.Talk to more people when triggered and avoid being alone
    5.Workout you get a fair amount of dopamine by working out, it will bring a spark of happiness in your life Trust me and go for it.
     
    bigman73, Jul 17, 2016
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  5. Jul 17, 2016 #5
    Tori S.

    Tori S. Fapstronaut

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    Omg! thank you, this is good stuff :)
    I'm definitely trying
     
    Tori S., Jul 17, 2016
    Tori S., Jul 17, 2016
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