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Fapstronaut, from France

Failed day 1 almost 10 times. Any tips? Oct 13, 2017

    1. vxlccm
      vxlccm
      Any better progress, lately? It's not easy! Let us know how you're doing.
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      2. marcpro
        marcpro
        Hi dude thanks. I'm doing good in life but I still fail every 2-3 days. I don't know if it happens more often by people that were here long time ago and loose control. I often fail before going to bed.
        Nov 15, 2017
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      3. vxlccm
        vxlccm
        Well, that's where I used a personal log. If you're doing better this month than last month, or at the end of the year compared to the beginning of the year, then that's still progress. Setting mini-goals like no more than once this week.. things like that can help flex and build the willpower -- stretch it out some. You can do it. Good on you for trying, and for staying accountable. Keep working on it, brother.
        Nov 15, 2017
    2. marcpro
      marcpro
      Failed day 1 almost 10 times. Any tips?
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      2. Clean Plate
        Clean Plate
        Get rid of all electronics that have assess to the internet. If you need to check email, go to the library. How far are you willing to go to get this addiction under control?
        Oct 13, 2017
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      3. Mri
        Mri
        Day 1 is the hardest of all. Dont give up.. Just keep fighting and do Meditation and some creative work(drawing,novel reading, videogames). Watch TV if u like.. I sing and read novels and meditate. U will end this addiction dont worry
        Oct 13, 2017
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      4. Sammyforthewin
        Sammyforthewin
        Yo, bro. Where are you? :(
        Nov 8, 2017
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    3. marcpro
      marcpro
      Could really need some help, on the difficult path of relapse..
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      2. kraanwater
        kraanwater
        ull regret it. take a deep breath and hold it till ou want to pass out when the urges come. what ever happens just keep on with nofap. all the best
        Aug 11, 2017
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    4. marcpro
      marcpro
      Your brain wants P, you don't. Damn I struggle overcoming this..
      1. vulture175
        vulture175
        So empty inside after p
        Aug 11, 2017
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    5. marcpro
      marcpro
      Anyone has tips for rebooting after a failing more than 1,5 weeks?
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      2. jest
        jest
        Try again at full force, identify and eliminate all your triggers or behaviours that ultimately lead to PMO. Just raise your overall awareness. Good luck!
        Jul 26, 2017
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      3. Survivalist
        Survivalist
        Motive & discipline.
        Jul 27, 2017
    6. marcpro
      marcpro
      I find it hard to come accross week ends. Does anyone have tips?
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      3. marcpro
        marcpro
        Haha thanks. All the best too
        Mar 26, 2017
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      4. NF SINCE BIRTH
        NF SINCE BIRTH
        The best thing to do is probably to try to stay busy/out of your house. Too much time alone is a trigger for many.
        Mar 26, 2017
      5. Kanthaka the warrior
        Kanthaka the warrior
        Plan a trip in weekends..
        Mar 26, 2017
    7. marcpro
      marcpro
      Porn a Public Health Crisis http://****religious content****.org/breaking-news-virginia-south-dakota-make-history-declare-porn-public-health-crisis/
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    8. marcpro
      marcpro
      So much nudity can't even go on youtube anymore..
      1. Big Brother
        Big Brother
        Ain't that the sick, sad truth man. Ever try Vimeo? Not as bad as YouTube but still be careful turn on the mature filter...
        Feb 2, 2017
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    9. marcpro
      marcpro
      Holy shit. Vacations are so hard to avoid giving into urges, how do you do?
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    10. marcpro
      marcpro
      Too much P in the media!
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    11. marcpro
      marcpro
      Double fail today. Not worth it! It's always the same. Good luck to y'all
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    12. marcpro
      marcpro
      Fantasy becoming real when you just finish relapsing. Reality is better, we have to get along with rejection! Because P will never reject us
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    13. marcpro
      marcpro
      Not worth it! Keep it fapstronauts^^
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    14. marcpro
      marcpro
      The days don't count. Your willpower does. Your mind setting and your will to kick pmo so far that you're completely indifferent to it.
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      2. Aces
        Aces
        Goals.
        Oct 3, 2016
      3. Atlanticus
        Atlanticus
        U’ve heard this before, but I've found -- I've abstained for over a month before -- that the trick is to create a different way to be in the world. When I couldn’t control myself, I mistakenly thought I had to obey my hormones. Nonsense. But without an identity that put sex in its place rather than vice versa, could only go back to the same sick shit. So I asked what, who, and how do I wanna be instead?
        Apr 16, 2017
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      4. marcpro
        marcpro
        Thx for the answer. The answer to your question always changes^^
        Apr 16, 2017
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    15. marcpro
      marcpro
      Porn weed or alcohol. There all shitty drugs, most of us have to stop it completely to control themselves
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    16. marcpro
      marcpro
      1 week then I relapse, week ends are though^^
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    17. marcpro
      marcpro
      Damn struggling to go beyond 2 3 4 5 days. Anyone has tips. I'm in an almodt endlessh relapse strike. Need some strong arguments!!
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      2. Lone_Wolf
        Lone_Wolf
        I'm almost at six days. I just need to keep my thoughts off anything sex-related in order to get past the rough periods. Governing the thoughts is the key. Where the mind goes, the body will follow.
        Sep 17, 2016
      3. AntiqueRevolverGuy
        AntiqueRevolverGuy
        Uhh, read the words of Jesus. Seriously buy a New Testament, King James version and read it. It's worth the read. Really.
        Sep 17, 2016
    18. marcpro
      marcpro
      Do you prefer being rejected IRL or being accepted by PRON? Guess you know the answer. Both hurt but one is real^^
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    19. marcpro
      marcpro
      Porn is shit, porn is mean, porn is fake, porn is real, porn is money, porn is hate, porn is exploitation, porn kills relations
      1. SMK
        SMK
        Stop Ranting! It only repeats after every relapse and never yield any solution
        Sep 13, 2016
      2. AntiqueRevolverGuy
        AntiqueRevolverGuy
        That can be a song. I kid you not
        Sep 17, 2016
    20. marcpro
      marcpro
      I don't feel good after a relapse. Never ever in my whole life, it's not worth it. You better have coconuts between your legs^^. Fantasyshit
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      2. Star Lord
        Star Lord
        Get back in that saddle!
        The past is gone. You've forgotten it. Goodluck
        Sep 13, 2016
      3. AntiqueRevolverGuy
        AntiqueRevolverGuy
        Coconuts between your legs? That might cause triggers for some people.
        Sep 17, 2016
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