Hi mates! I am very excited for joining this community.I am 22 year old man (today is my birthday ) My great score is 19 days between November 30 - December 19 2013.After that I couldn't focus completely.Now, I decided to focus again and get help from that community. My situation now: Last seen pron and masturbate April 2 after that in April 8 only masturbation.
Happy birthday alphaboy, I wish you good luck and Hope you will not falter again. But remember nothing is built in one day and even though we fail and stumble on our live path, we always get a new day to try our best! And by the way! Can I get a piece of pie too!
Hang in there mate, I know (we all know) what you are going through! Maybe you need more knowledge on your addiction? It helps me to understand the mechanism on this addiction, have had other addictions in my life before.
Hi alphaboy. I'm sorry about your fap today. Could I give a word of advice? If you're interested, it's at the bottom of the message. If not, just know that you are not alone, and I wish you all the absolute best on your journey. Advice: Write in your journal. I mean, really write. Write about how you've been, how you're feeling while writing, what your practical plans are for making it through the day/week, and maybe even touch on the roots of why you think you have this habit/addiction in terms of concepts. For instance, was the girl just sex or was it something else, too? I know for me my issues (including fantasizing, developing immediate intrigue) have deep roots and after reading others' journals, I don't think I'm alone. Wishing you clarity and honesty.
You really need to get back on track! Delete all porn, get blockers and whenever you feel like you wanna gap, walk out. Do something, anything. You can do it. It starts NOW!
Hey alphaboy, Today's a new day. Reaffirm your commitment to yourself to take control of your actions. Figure out why you are here, what your goals are, and how you want to go about achieving them. If you are posting only to alleviate your guilt after a relapse then you are wasting your time here, you are not ready for such a hard commitment. This is only my 9th day, but I am starting to see results. And it took somebody else to help me see my perceived problem was actually a good thing. You never know when, where, or how things will begin to change for you. But, they won't change if you don't start. Dig in and start anew, Geyser BTW, journaling really does help, it's weird, but true.
