I'm resetting the 90 day challenge today after a relapse. Would anyone like to join me?

Sorry, I am not sure I understand your question. Relapses vary from person to person. I have always made a great effort not to binge. So if I do 30 days, relapse once and do another 30 days, then I have relapsed just once in 60 days. Is that it?

 

Oh Mr. Owl can you give me your 92 days of no pmo?

 

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I find it funny, Mr Owl, that you don't get my reference to the Toostie Pop commercials! Yeah, thanks for the advice though. I always binge, trying to get as much semen out as possible. But perhaps I shouldn't, as it seems semen is like condensed sunshine, it'll motivate you and give you energy.

 

Toostie Pop commercials. Hmm, I don't know what that means either. If it is something on TV, well, I haven't got one.

There is no need or benefit in ejaculating as much as possible. Binging just means more and more dopamine release!

 

Hell yeah guys. One day down so far. I'm glad we can all work together to not only better ourselves, but also each other.

One thing that I subconsciously do (now in this case - DID) is look at porn under the pretense of not masturbating, but after a few mins or so I automatically started doing it. I'm just avoiding it altogether now. A good motivator for me is to think about how my future children would feel if they knew I was reliant upon pleasure from someone/something other than my significant other. Not a good feeling, so I'm looking to better myself for my loved ones as well. Hope that rant helped you guys a little!!

 

I'm new here too, only found this site last week, I tried a twenty day challenge and caved after seven days, I think I'm going to go all out this time. I tried going cold turkey with no internet at all for the first five days then when I had some work to do online temptation got the better of me DOH!!

 

2 days in, I may have had a small wet dream discharge the night before but I don't even recall it? Thankfully that does not count as a relapse since involuntary. Back to meditating, exercising, eating good, reading BOOKS. Have a blessed Monday.

 

Hey man. Starting 90 day reboot too. U on rtribe? Where you located? Alberta canada here

 

Ok let's go

 

Im on day 5 of no porn. Day 23 of no masturbation. Im on 90 day reboot too. Happy to support u bud

 

Me too. Let's help each other up.

 

For sure buddy. Rtribe me if you want

 

Sounds good. I find it best to just not even tempt fate, no looking or peeking at all. That always undoes me.

 

I have set hard barriers. I have sworn never under any circumstances to touch my penis again, aside from peeing and washing it. I tell myself real men dont masturbate or look at porn. My orgasms come from normal sex with real people not masturbating to pixels

 

Not everyone is the same. If anything, the older you are - the harder it gets as it becomes more ingrained. Everyone's root cause is different, everyone's brain chemistry is different, everyone's environment differs. But we are all the same because we want the same thing, but each journey will be individual.

 

That is my logic too. I have no business indulging in fantasy and playing with myself. It is not productive. Of course, when you start "just looking" it's almost as if a virus gets into your brain and for me the craving is incredibly strong. Even just thoughts can get me going but I have a fighting chance with those.