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BROTHER'S WIFE

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Ethan.HunT, Oct 30, 2016.

  1. Oct 30, 2016 #1
    Ethan.HunT

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    Hello Everyone so here is my Story.

    I am Belong To Good Family My Dad is businessman we are Rich, I am addicted To Maturbation and the reason is My Brother's Wife.

    My brother lives out of country and his wife is here , when my brother get married at the beginning i was a stranger to my brother wife then when my Brother leaves home gone out of country for bussiness I became friend with my brother's wife then we get close to each other day by day.

    Then someday i started to touch her hands sometimes her arms, grabbing her hands and She also likes that she also started to like me she talks with me she touchs me we get very close each other then i dont want to share but we both crossed limits.

    Well now she is out of country with my brother no one knows about our story except me and her . Sometimes she calls me on my phone we talk she miss me i miss her.

    Now the Problem is that she is very hot i always want to have sex with her but i am afraid to say that. and When She leaved home I started watching her pictures and Started Maturbating On her photos I know i am fucking bad person but i cant control my thoughts i cant control my feelings I love her But i cant have sex with her I dnt knw What to Do When i miss her alot I just open Her pIctures and started Maturbating and Feels Good For Few Days then This Happens Again .

    Guys i Know i am Guilty But Please Tell me Any Way to Get out of this When i Miss her i maturbate on her pictures then feel free for Few Days then Same Thing happens I love her so much i want to sleep with her but i cant i am just addicted to her sexually so i maturbate on her pictures it effects my Health In My Ways Please Help :(
     
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  2. Oct 30, 2016 #2
    Repentance

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    I honestly have zero empathy for you. You need to learn about boundaries. I think you should probably seek professional help.
     
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  3. Oct 31, 2016 #3
    Islanders190

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    I agree that's beyond terrible how can you do that to your brother ?? Jesus Christ is a women you can never be with worth the trouble or stepping over family. I'm beyond disgusted I hope you seek help cause you need it before this becomes a million times worse
     
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  4. Oct 31, 2016 #4
    NicoRobocop

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    Pray meditate and leave the desire and change it to another woman, you look to be slave on your passion... be strong... man needs dominate the feelings... not let you be dominated by woman... she is playing maybe... so be clear and distant... in case leave the situation
     
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  5. Oct 31, 2016 #5
    Ethan.HunT

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    I am Agree with all of you .. I am Not Angry i know i am Doing Wrong I am 100% Wrong but i am not in my control whenever i think of her it makes me sad depressed then after some time i finally giveup and maturbate to get out of this problem i Tried almost everything but nothing seems to be Work .

    I had Girlfriend Before i also breakup with her Becuz I love Someone Else i Dnt knw what to do in that situation i tried to turn off my phone for weeks Tried to stay away from her in every way but she calls at home and sometimes she asks for me to other family members then i finally have to talk to her how can i Control all of this i really dnt knw
     
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  6. Oct 31, 2016 #6
    lorenzo1988

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    I think you should tell her that this whole situation is very wrong and you guys can't meet or communicate at all anymore. Tell her to not call you and stay away from each other totally - time will go by and you will finally get over her.
     
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  7. Oct 31, 2016 #7
    Ethan.HunT

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    Bro you are Right But How Can I tell her That i want to Sex With Her? or I am Having Crush On her ? I Dnt knw But Its Really Impossible To tell her about all this She Likes me but i dnt knw mayb she dnt think about having sex with me or mayb She also wants to sleep with me . But i am Agree with you i will Try to put myself away from her i will try hard to not talk with her thank you so much for advice
     
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  8. Oct 31, 2016 #8
    Szostak

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    Ethan! Where are you from?
    You should understand about morals, and you should be aware that, its not about forgetting her as just a woman that makes you Masturbate. But the wife of your beloved brother. Tell her this is insane, and you can't betray your family, your blood brother. You say you are very rich. Pay yourself a trip somewhere, throw your phone or format (restore to factory) your cellphone! Get a hobby, gym is cheap, take classes of things you always wanted to do.
    Believe it, you'll have far bigger problems if you don't leave it now! And go through this situation. You are not ruining a marriage, it's your family. You have to forget it now, and later be able to look at her eyes and each other understand how awful that was, supposed not to work.
    I'm not saying you are unattractive to women, self worthiness is the true thing! But you two got together in a moment of her loneliness.
    I hope you clean this mess before it gets dirtier. Best of luck and be strong.
     
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  9. Oct 31, 2016 #9
    jdilla97

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    Do not do something you'll regret later! It's lust. This can be fatal if used incompetently.
    Think about it!
     
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  10. Oct 31, 2016 #10
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    What you had done you can undo it, focus on future, don't let yourself having any more guilt, you like her, she like you and she is gone, close this chapter, else you better know whats the consequence would be...
    Try relationship with some other girl, let all her memories be over-written by some-one else memory....
    Delete all her belonging especially her photos and have a fresh start...
     
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  11. Oct 31, 2016 #11
    Ethan.HunT

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    You All Are Right But As i Mentioned Before i am not only one involved she also involved in that .. like when she was here she gives me hot looks like she wear top in which bra appeared then she came close to me many times she noticed that i am watching her body still she didnt say anything she was actually happy about it ..
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    Well I Really Appreciate all Advices from you guys... Thank you for Helping Me Now I just Turned off My Phone by past 2 Days I will Never Talk with her if i talk that makes me insan i cant control so I dont talk with her and 2 days passed still i am not feeling any urge or memory of her as i am trying to forget past .. Well thank you again for advices I am Trying my best to make myself better Person
     
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  12. Oct 31, 2016 #12
    Szostak

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    Where are you from? Which country?
     
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