Hoping to get my confidence back during sex

Wow im on day 3 too and also gwetting wet dreams too!
It should all get better after your done rebooting. Tell youself and beleive and trust it will work

 

I'm on day 5 right now my longest streak is 8. I'm 27 and been daily PMO since starting in my preteens. I've slept with around 30 girls in that time. I wish I would of discovered my problem a long time ago. With all the girls it's been a 50/50. Sometimes it would work other times just couldn't rise to the occasion. So that would drag on me and make it even harder cause now the thought in your head is "is this going to happen again?".

So yes if you stop it will help your confidence and what happens with you watch P you think that's how it has to be. There is a difference between sex and love obviously but the pressure society puts on us guys is eminence. So it will shoot your confidence quick if you can't rise. I mean if you think about it humans are creatures of habits, we also become desensitized to things. The more you do it or look at something the more disassociated you become.

As far as getting outside of your head that's the hardest thing for me at least. I found the best thing that works for me is I tell the person up front what's going on. Like I met this girl recently at a concert and she wanted more I just wanted friends and we went to the bar I told her what is going on and where I am in my life, she understands. My ex I'm working on getting back she completely understands and doesn't pressure me or anything.

Just relax you're not alone and there isn't a physical problem it's in your psyche. You can over come it.

So coming from someone who as at been doing this at least 15 years, stop. You'll appreciate your partner far more and when it happens you'll focus on just how you make them feel. It's not about doing it like P star it's about the emotional connection and high you get.

Stick with it man.