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Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by cixelsyd, May 29, 2014.

  1. May 29, 2014 #1
    cixelsyd

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    It's been nearly 30 days since I stopped PM, and I finally had the courage to ask out a coworker. She had been giving me hints about her affection for years and I never caught on because of the haze. When we were on different schedules for a while, she took up a boyfriend and got engaged, but the relationship fell apart when I got back onto her shift.

    So far we have promised each other the utmost discretion, because of our positions in the company, and because I need to make sure she'll be a more sexual partner than my wife, who has gone pretty cold turkey with me for the past few years. I believe one or both will satisfy me while I decide, and am thankful the desire I found by quitting PM for the past month has helped this process along.
     
    cixelsyd, May 29, 2014
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  2. May 29, 2014 #2
    elbigdog

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    Wait, your cheating on your wife?
     
    elbigdog, May 29, 2014
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  3. May 29, 2014 #3
    December

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    Are you thanking nofap for enabling you to cheat on your wife? Sounds like you should be thanking your pmo issue for that....
     
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  4. May 29, 2014 #4
    arpyegap

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    I hate to judge....., but wow...just wow. Not sure this is a good thing
     
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  5. May 29, 2014 #5
    NotAfraid

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    It's about novelty and the coolidge effect, just like PMO.

    Please, don't cheat on your wife. Talk with her about your issues and then break-up if you come to the conclusion, that your relationship is not good for you.
     
    NotAfraid, May 29, 2014
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  6. May 29, 2014 #6
    IWantABetterLife22

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    You're thanking NoFap for the courage to cheat on your wife? Congrats about gaining your courage back, but seriously if you respect your wife at all (even though she's gone "cold-turkey" on you) have the decency to talk to her about it (and divorce her before going forward with this other woman if it comes to that).
     
    IWantABetterLife22, May 29, 2014
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  7. May 30, 2014 #7
    NewJackSwing1983

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    Holy moly, it seems like you're not taking the spirit of this site seriously. If you're about to cheat on your wife, that is the most un-manliest thing to do. Please re-consider what you're about to do!

    So this woman was engaged, plus you're married, plus you're both being discreet because of your positions in the company? Sounds like you're about to lose your marriage, lose your job, and lose this relationship all over the idea that you might be "satisfied while you decide." Decide what? You gave vows in front of God and witnesses that you'd be faithful to your wife. DO NOT BLOW THIS!
     
    NewJackSwing1983, May 30, 2014
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  8. May 30, 2014 #8
    stygian

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    As someone else mentioned, it's about seeking novelty. It looks to me like you will not be satisfied in either relationship.

    This also indicates some views on marriage, it sounds like you do not believe that marriage is important?
     
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    stygian, May 30, 2014
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