How many sex in reality happen like porns?

It sounds like you are wanting to hear a story. I must warn you that a story will still get you dopamine flowing, my mind does the same thing to me. What will be the good of knowing? Are you thinking that it could happen to you, something crazy like a porn story line? A sex story can get your dopamine flowing which will lead you to other things and you could relapse. All that being said, out of 1000 I would say maybe 10 depending on how extreme you are thinking. Strangers is a lot more common though. Don't toy with this story thing thinking it won't harm you like a porn video, it is just as bad.

 

I like Nitsui's reply. I'll just add what do you mean "sex like a porn". You mean acrobatic and loud? Sex is pretty much sex, I would think? Sex among strangers is fairly common in bars I think, or if not outright strangers between people who are not in relationships.

 

When I was in college, and occasionally afterwords, I'd hook up with people I just met. How often it happens depends on the person I think. I'd guess 5% of the people in my college were having 80-90% of the random sex. The rest were either in committed relationships, or didn't want to have random sex with strangers. And a lot of the time, the people who were having "random sex" were having it with the same person each time - like, not a proper relationship, but not totally random either.

But if you're asking if women in the US order pizza so they can bang the delivery guy, I have never heard of that happening.

 

I think the main thing in porn that doesn't happen in real life is that the women love everything the guy does to them, no matter how gross, uncomfortable, painful, or humiliating.

In reality, women have preferences, experience pain, discomfort, have feelings, etc...and I've never seen porn show a man empathizing with her as a human being, paying attention to how she's doing, and trying to give her a good experience. It's always about him, and the woman somehow magically just enjoys everything.

In terms of the fetishes and role plays that you see in porn, yes, there are people out there in real life that do those things. It's just not such a one-sided experience.

 

Frankly, I think in most cases the guy does a lot more to please the woman than vice versa. JMO.

 

I had this a few months back. I could almost feel the impulses in my head telling me that porn is how sex really is. That all those crappy fetishes were the mainstream. It felt like poison in my mind. I eventually came to the realisation that most if not all porn is either fake or imaginary(this in regard to stories etc..). It's all scripted. Actors playing roles. Sure intercourse is happening,in a mechanical sort of way. But people involved are doing it for the money, it doesn't mean anything. Its not real sex. No feelings,intimacy or even real reactions involved.
Further i realized people are into all kinds of things,but most people are not into weird or disgusting fetishes. Its not the norm but an exception.
I don't see why anyone should have a problem with casual sex between two people,it's their business not yours. They're both making conscious choices you know? As for how it is in the states and other nations, i guess people are comparably more expressive of their sexuality,but its still not like how it is in porn.

Seriously,if you let porn,something that makes money by portraying women and men as sex objects, tell you about sex..you are way more stupid than you think. It would like asking the diesel lobby about impact of fossil fuels on the climate,they'll say diesel releases oxygen.

Have you seen Gary wilson's videos--"The so this is how they do it mechanism"

Porn is messing with you mate.

 

You also have to remember, porn gives you the illusion that sex is around every corner. It gives you a false reality that says you should be having sex all the time. Sex is a very important part of a relationship where two people connect on a very deep level, but it isn't the most important thing in this world. Porn wants to keep you interested, that is the reason it gives you unreal scenarios that seem awesome and sometimes extreme. The more extreme or disgusted you are the more dopamine that will flood your system, and to an extent I believe a lot of people in the industry know this. I am still fighting the battle myself to keep me aware that most, probably 99%, of the porn out there is fake. Also, a lot of times there is a video and that same video will be titled several different things. Like, man and wife have sex, then someone else will give it a different title man and random woman he just met have sex, so on and so forth. We have to remember the true measure of a man or woman. It isn't how many people that you can have sex with before you die, like porn would like you to believe. It is during your lifetime what will you give to this world, how many people have you helped before you die? Did you live for yourself or to better humanity? At least that is my opinion.

 

So true, many here are unknowingly dilluded to this fact. Swapped P for chasing real girls etc, when really they are no better off than when they watched P.
But really we should all just be good to one and other, respect our elders and be strong minded individuals. Go with the flow of life, discover where it takes it and not rush things just to "tick it off the bucket list" or appear more interesting or cool to others.
Like, I've done many interesting things but I never tell anyone, because they are special to me.
I think it's today's culture of needing to feel special to other people...but why? We don't need to prove ourselves to anyone.

 

Sex with strangers happens 10 out of 100 and it depends on ladies i guess. If ladies are interested, most of the men are always up..LOL

 

Never say never and everything can happen. But sex like you see in porn... I think that it's very small chance of that.

Think of every girl you know and ask yourself: "Is this girl capable of having sex with complete stranger?" Do not imagine, just think: "What kind of girl would do such thing?" Of course there are some girls, which would do that. And then ask yourself: "Is this a girl that I really want?"

 

You are right. Porn doesn't show you the truth, porn show you what you want to see. Why? Because porn-industry is all about money... and with more visits at porn site, they will earn more money.

 

See you again Jon Snow!
Somehow I thought your post is a substituted way to seek some triggers when I read your thread.haha,hope not.
The porn just fake it! Maybe there is few rare circumstance exist. Don't it mean that it is impossible for almost every other person?

 

I swear to god this is true: I went on my first date with a girl from tinder just to end up in a bed with her best friend that same night just to find out I have a PIED and I cannot fuck her.

 

Well.. I think its totally possible, not trying to high dophamine or anithing but during my life time i have seen somer crasy shit, sex is sex, its real, and that stranger and random sex is totally real for me. Situations could be generated, i have ben in situations like this, but must say it feels a little diferent than porn videos because in some ways you are more aware of things. But for the question if random stranger sex in a social place is possible, i would say totally possible, it happens more than we think we just dont notice them, dont set your mind in all of this tough just treat a girl nicely and everithing is possible