PMO.. Is a serious fucking motherfucking bitch addiction!!! So i figured out my friend PMOs, In the shower. Porn searches on his fucking email, while he is taking a "shower" For an hour.. And when he has his phone, he comes over to my house to record for youtube, He says he takes a shower (He PMOs before coming over) And he looks so tired, His mind is all over the fucking place, Sucks at recording for youtube is boring and isnt funny at all and is actually annoying. But a few months back when he didnt have his phone to jack off before he comes over, He is hilarous, Makes me laugh my ass off and is good at recording and is funny. He obviously cant pmo then. He isnt him when he hashis phone and PMOs before coming over. I fucking hatw PMO. It ruins peoples lifes and sucks your potential to be a fun and happy human being. I dont want to be friends with someone who PMOs, Its like quiting cocaine or drugs when you hang out with people who do it. I feel a strange feeling to masturbate when he comes over and he gives me bad vibes. Should i confront him?
lmao I had a friend like this, he was so fucking bad with girls it was embarrassing. I mean I didn't confront him about it per se -- I've learned that most people usually get defensive and deny that there's a problem when you do that. rather I just sort of brought the topic up offhand and really upsold the whole idea in order to pique his interest through my pov. it worked and eventually we would have pretty personal and transparent conversations about nofap, but only because he was humble and willing to understand his problem. really you can't ever expect someone to change, but you can at least pursuade them
He is really stupid. Its because of PMO. I saw some searches from when he was in 7th grade (He prob started watching porn in seventh geade too like me. Except he didnt stop like me in 8th grade. Im thinking of what to do. I told him you probably watch por everyday and he is like all embarrassed. He showed a stupidvideo where ha guy shows cartoonporn (blurred of course) and some other guy says "That is art) . He said it was hentai or whatever and if i know what that is and i responded Yea something you watch everysingle day. He was so embarrassed lmao he was like Nahhhhh
Why not just share the observation with your friend that he's happier, livelier, and more enjoyable when he's not attached to his phone. Who knows, maybe by sharing this observation he might come to his own conclusion the he's better off without pmo.
I did. All he does besides school is watch youtube lmao. I told him a lot of stuff (Not about porn)But about the phone and stuff but he doesnt give a shit
Dude this is a very touchy subject. You have to be careful when talking to your friend,because you might lose him. He already lost himself,and he can't afford to lose a friend like you. You seem to really care alot about your friend, and your friend, even though he doesn't know it at the moment, needs you more than ever.I wish I had someone in my life like you when I started looking at Porn. Listen, you need to make him feel bad about what he's doing. Remind him of the person he used to be,and point out the person he is today,but be careful with language. Don't criticize him,and try to be understanding. Tell him that he's not alone,and point him to this community. Tell him that it's not his fault,because it really is not in his control. I mean we all have the urges sometimes. It is human nature. But choosing what to do with those urges is what matters the most. But first, make sure you make him understand that what he's doing is wrong,and make him feel regret for himself. If he cant' feel sorry for himself,then none of this will help. You are a true friend. Help him out,and be patient.
