Hello everyone... I am on day 46 .... big achievement toward my goal 90 days ( hard mode until now). These days, I have insane urges to real sex with women or ... or at least handjob . These urges even led me to create new accounts in social media to find girls only to have sex... I am 24 & virgin & religion man and I should not have sex before marriage ... so what I should do ?? I am afraid to decide something that maybe ruin my future life. Any advice ???
I don't get what you mean by a kind of relapse?!!! I was looking for real women to have normal sex. thank you for your comment
If it goes against your religious beliefs don't do it. You are just rediscovering your sexuality and now you want to test it out which is natural. If you truly are religious then god will know that you have betrayed him. If not then do whatever your heart desires.
I am doing hard mode 46 days until now.... I want to heal from my PMO addication and have good sex life with real women that is my goal. These urgues about real sex makes me want to make things faster and meet with girls.
I think I am not that strong against my sexual desires... And that what makes me doing PMO for several years.... Now after 46 days of Nofap... I faced the original desire for real sex... And I don't know what to do... Maybe that what makes me ask before doing somthing wrong... Thank you for your advice...
everything i'm about to say is based on my own experience as a religious man who had the same feelings, urges, and conflicts. your results may vary. i didn't search for women on social media, but my first time having sex was definitely influenced by the internet. i had been wanting to wait until marriage, but i gave in to my urges. i regret it for a lot of reasons, religious belief being just one in a long list of them. take those urges as an opportunity to focus. what's more important to you: 90 days or having sex just to sate those urges? learn from them and understand what's causing them so you're prepared to handle them when they come up. if you're using social media to meet women, then i'll tell you that, based on my experience, the sex won't be worth it unless you're really interested in investing months -- maybe even years -- in getting to know these women online before meeting them in person, let alone having sex with any of them. if you're still a virgin, my advice to you would be not to cheapen your first experience by doing it out of urges that you are losing control over. congratulations on making it to day 46.
If you have insane urges for sex, then it means that you are not changed completely. I'm 20, virgin, and on 90 days of NoFap and I don't have any urges to have sex neither watch sexual videos. When you don't have urges to have sex, but you decide when to have sex with the right girl, is when you have control of your libido and your mind. That should be your goal.
