Hello, I am a new member at NoFap community. in spring 2013 I decided to stop watching porn and faping.unfortunatly I lost my libido, morning wood , wet dreams, and I dont feel any pleasure while having sex or kissing my wife is that a flat line?. Also How I can get rid of it becauae iam having this problem for 4 years now. In the end I hope I wrote everting correctly because English is my second language.
4 years!? Might be something mental. I'd recommend seeing a therapist or talking to a doctor rather than random guys on the internet.
Do you love your wife? for how long you guys have been married? im asking because you could be bored of your sex life with her...have you ever tried new things? try getting her from behind, go alone on vacations or even go to a swing party.. Before you state that you have a real problem check if you feel arroused by other women or for some particular thing (maybe you are into fetishism). Also are you pressured at work? like heavy stress? or maybe heavy financial problems or family problems? this could affect your sex life Do you do heavy drinking or drugs? this can effect your sex life too If you tried everything i said before and if you don't have any of the problems above i would recommend you yo go to a doctor and a psychologist.
Thanx for your advice. Actually I went to a doctor before he said it might be a depression. I took anti depressions such as zoloft and another anti depreesions without any benefits. Also my famly dactor prescribed to me andro gel to increase my testosterone level and that not helpd too.
You know the body is a perfect machine in most of the cases...it might take longer but have you ever tried to eat healthy and do moderate excersise? this will help your body and mind as a whole...sometimes pushing your body and feeling some sun in the skin is better than any anti-depressive. Give a try to that.. Also, have you asked yourself if you are gay? there's nothing wrong with that. I know it can be hard to accept something like this but in your case you should take into account every possibility.. Keep posting here as this community can help you relieve some of the burden. Stay strong brother
Thnx for replay Yes I love my wife. Weve been married for 4 years now and we have a littel boy. Also I went To Hawaii with her last Christmas and we had a lot of fun there. I dont drink alcohol or using drugs. Currently I dont work but still I have a monthly about 660 dollars which is enough money in my country. I went to a psychologist before but without any benifits.
Actually iam a lazy person but yes I did tried some exercises and diet that helpd having wet dreams. And iam very sure iam not gay. Thank you again for your replay
keep doing the excersise and eating healthy...as you can see it helped you somehow but im guessing that you stopped having this healthy ways...as i said it will take a while but don't quit on exercising as it stimulates your whole system. Checkout this video it might help you..it talks about sexual disfunction induced by porn: in the description is a test that says how addicted you were to porn and might help you have an idea how much time you need to recover.
Thanks a lot brother Ill keep excercising and eating healthy. Actually I been watching porn for about 7 years so is that why iam might having a long flat line?. Also I will watch the video. Thanks Again and have a good day
