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Im sorry to offend, but...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by ThisGuy!, Apr 20, 2017.

  1. ThisGuy!

    ThisGuy! Guest

    Im having a hard time connecting with the majority of these articles. I dont want to sound mean or offensive, and I am very sorry if you are offended, but I am having such a difficult time relating to the many members of nofap because so many of you sound so feminine/beta/submissive, etc. whatever you want to call it. My problem is that I cant fuck girls because I am so conditioned to wanking to porn, but every other aspect of my life is set in place. This is the one thing I am here to solve, but I cant really relate to any of the people posting because it seems like 80% of you are blown away by a girl smiling at you. I have the opposite problem; I have to find some excuse why I cant take them home to my bed because my dick to brain signals are all fucked up from porn. So if there are any other guys out there who feel like alphas in a room full of beta's, please feel free to get in contact, because I just cant take advice from everyone else, because I cant relate to them one bit. If you are offended by this, truly sorry.
     
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  2. First of all: I don't feel offended. If you can relate to me or not - I don't mind. What is this "you"? Who or what are YOU? Any answer? You are a wonderful person. Your mind may not be able to relate to me - but your heart will recognize me not as alpha or beta but as a human being. I am speaking to your heart, not to your mind. Try to relax and try to change your life if you feel like.
     
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  3. Maybe some people on various NF/Porn forums exaggerate maybe some are very real IDK nor do I care. I'm here for support not BS like this. I don't want to call you out but judging from your very first post on this forum you don't seem very alpha at all. But hey beauty is in the eye of the beholder your "Alpha" maybe my "douchebag" just saying. If you're offended I'm sorry.
     
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  4. ThisGuy!

    ThisGuy! Guest

    That's the spirit, and I genuinely appreciate your "douchebag". Everyone is so afraid to offend eachother, but I can take it just as well as I can dish it out. I know im being offensive, but it would be nice to find like-minded people. Call this BS all you want, but some of these posts just drive me up the fucking wall.
     
  5. Ya "I'm sorry" and "I don't mean to offend" are alpha af. Glad you're finally here. Oh wait, no one gives a fuck about what you want or about how your delicate ass has trouble relating to others on this site.

    Welcome, pi boy.
     
  6. Kable

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    No offense taken, so please don't take any- now if I may costructively criticize. An alpha doesn't go around calling himself an alpha. The mentality of alpha vs beta males is ego driven, being an alpha is something people recognize and feel around you.
    Now, as far as porn addiction goes, it doesn't matter who you are, your brain chemistry works the same as everybody else including "betas". You may not relate to the stories, but I'm sure you can learn something about healing your brain from the stories here and use them to your advantage. You may not jizz your pants when a girl smiles at you, but you're on the same boat of people trying to quit this mental obstruction.
    Also, I think if you're here trying to conquer your addiction, by default that makes you an alpha because you're after something. That's the energy behind an alpha male, it's the drive. Wouldn't you agree @ThisGuy! ?
     
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  7. J247

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    I agree to some extent. I mean yes it seems like a bunch of people haven't had the ability to get with a girl or close to, but why would they when they had the internet/P to satisfy their cravings? I guarantee a bunch of the nofappers who you would consider to be beta will become alpha when they're done with their reboot. And it's also part of life. A lot of these young adults still have plenty of time in their lives to gain experience that will come indirectly from the benefits achieved from nofap. Just give it time.

    I also love your account is "pending deletion" lol.
     
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  8. Oh gosh I already know where this is going. Look if you want to offend someone go do it IRL and stopping hiding behind a blank photo on a NF forum you "Alpha".
     
  9. Wow much "Alpha" his account was open for 2 years and he couldn't take criticism back so sad.
     
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  10. Olaz

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    Dude, is this some sort of Walter Mitty act? I'm thinking you're probably not as great as you put on--and that the girls you think want you are laughing inside. And maybe laughing out loud at your limp member.

    Forge.
     
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  11. maske

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    Dude, first: drop the alpha, beta labels. People aren't binaries. I understand what you mean when you say that you read some weird stuff here, something not relatable to your experience in your life. Just let it be. This is what the world is about, people are different. And in every subject, people can be in both extremes and the only thing that could define you as an "alpha" is to accept that, instead of judging yourself as the alpha for having one specific opinion about it.

    If you are too worried about what people think, do, or write on the internet, you are just as insecure as everyone else. Some guys are insecure around girls, others because of different reasons. Everyone is insecure about something. Even the pope, even fucking Madonna must be insecure about something. When you learn that and start being more empathetic towards other people, you will be closer to what you think it is to be an "alpha".
     
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