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In need of advice...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by prettymthrfkr, Jul 5, 2014.

  1. Jul 5, 2014 #1
    prettymthrfkr

    prettymthrfkr Fapstronaut

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    Hi, Hope everyone had an amazing 4th July.

    I Just came back from a nice evening, and I have the urge to masturbate. Ive been completely without for about 45 days, and it has honestly not been hard at all. So im starting to think that I might not need to hold up for 90 days. But I kinda feel like if ive gone this long, I might aswell strive for the 90 days I put up as a goal. The feeling I have right now is weird, because I would have no problem just watching a movie and go to bed, but I also want to masturbate, but im absolutely not craving it. I guess my post is very vague but I just wanted some input from you guys. And I know it comes down to what i want in the end but anyways.. thanks for taking your time
     
    prettymthrfkr, Jul 5, 2014
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  2. Jul 5, 2014 #2
    Needsomehelp

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    That feelings just a reminder of how far you've came! Keep it up!
     
    Needsomehelp, Jul 5, 2014
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  3. Jul 5, 2014 #3
    prettymthrfkr

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    What I kinda want to know, if I dont feel really different now, is anything going to change from say 50days until 90 days? because im pretty sure I will masturbate sometime down the road?
     
    prettymthrfkr, Jul 5, 2014
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  4. Jul 5, 2014 #4
    Prominent

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    Ideally, you want to understand the behavior is unacceptable and that it's not okay. This level of self-control will be beyond rewarding. Stick to your goals, but remember to slowly rid the urge indefinitely for a greater sense of personal peace. Good work!
     
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  5. Jul 5, 2014 #5
    prettymthrfkr

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    true, but its not cool when I dont feel like im struggeling, I dont then get the feeling of suceeding when I dont do it.. Its just like ok cool another day.. and I dont get the feeling of satisfaction when not doing it.
     
    prettymthrfkr, Jul 5, 2014
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