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Porn infused wet dreams

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by slitebg, May 1, 2017.

  1. slitebg

    slitebg Fapstronaut

    Hi all, first of all, I don't know if this is the right place to post this but here it goes.

    Since I started NoFap I had my first wet dreams in years (maybe even since teen years). I know this is normal. My first wet dream after almost a month with no PMO was completely normal - I dreamt about sex with a girl and I came in my sleep.

    However, last night I had a really weird wet dream where I was actually watching P in my sleep. I even remember details of the 'video'. I tried not to cum (in my sleep) but I couldn't stop myself and just when I was cumming I woke up and realized I had actually ejaculated.

    No drama here, just really strrange feeling and never happened to me before. Maybe it has to do with the fact that I recently relapsed so my body and brain want the same fix again so they play it out in my sleep where I have almost no control.

    Has this happened to anyone, how does one manage it (beyond abstaining from PMO of course) and any other tips and opinions would be nice.
     
  2. KeZhengHao

    KeZhengHao Fapstronaut

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    Do you mean from having wet dreams entirely or from having wet dreams about porn rather than people? The first I don't think is possible, the second maybe trying to be more social with people of the opposite sex? I know that my social life really directly impacts my fantasies and mindset, and is usually a major contributor to quality of life.
     
  3. slitebg

    slitebg Fapstronaut

    Like I said it's really strange (for me). In my dream, I was watchin P and masturbating, just like the visual u get when watching it in real life. When I was finishing in my dream, I woke up to see I had actually ejaculated. Still, you are right, I must find new and different ways to keep my mind occupied, stay away from P and I'm sure this won't happen again. Thanks for feedback :)
     
  4. Also try not to think of sex before bed (I know it's really hard). Try to read a book or do meditation before you go to sleep. Or any nighttime routine that works for you and keeps your mind off of PMO.
     
  5. Fightthedevil

    Fightthedevil Fapstronaut

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    Been There Bro.Freaks The Shit Out of You xD.

    But There Is Nothing In My view you can do to control these,you mostly will experience these on long streaks (again my experience).What Helps is just perform a 2 minute workout before sleeping.What is that? Set The Stop Watch and do 15 push ups,15 crunches,15 squats and remaining time plank it will help you fall asleep quickly and prevent sexual thoughts and urges during sleep.Moreover,don't take spicy food atleast 5 hours before bed.spicy food leads to urges and the urges (with erections) one you are able to control lead to wet dreams.But still there is not much you can do to prevent,porn dreams are common during nofap as your brain is trying to get the dopamine hit itself,so don't worry,try the 2 minute workout it really helps.
     
  6. slitebg

    slitebg Fapstronaut

    I do usually read different Holy books before bed and have a before bedtime meditation routine. I should give it time maybe. I did still have sexual thoughts before going to sleep this night, though. Weird thing is I didn't have just a sexual dream, but actually watching P dream. Blah. Thank you for advice.

    I work out moderately 3-4 times a week. That's actually my basic routine with some more stuff added. It seems different people have very different reactions though. When I work out, I feel tired and happy of course, but I actually have a hard time going to sleep even 4-5 hours later. Has something to do with elevated heart rate I feel. I also feel more energetic and wakeful after exercise and I actually have *more* urges and sexual thoughts because of all that blood pumping I guess :) I avoid spicy foods, even though I love them, my stomach doesn't like them. Still thanks for advice.

    I'm not too psyched about what happened I just felt really strange watchin P in my sleep. Didn't really realize how deep PMO had gone. Maybe when one stops experiencing it consciously it goes in the subconscious, hence the dreams. It should work itself out by avoiding PMO and building new patterns in the brain.
     
  7. Fightthedevil

    Fightthedevil Fapstronaut

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    Yep,All You Can do is have faith in your journey and keep going.Good Luck Brother.
     
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