I have delayed the beginning of my reboot as I wanted to start off with a fancy story but I kept delaying that as I did not have time to write it! And so I kept delaying my reboot. I still have no time for writing the whole story but I will start now and write later! Here we go! DAY ONE! Wish me luck!
I am 31 years old. Married. Good job. Good life. However, i am addicted to sexting. I almost never watch porn, so the P is not my problem. However, i almost always look for someone to sext with. I block them, delete them and keep finding new ones! I also make a lot of lies about my sexuality and sex life to help me with sexting. I also have problems with my sex life as I don't enjoy PIV orgasms, they take a long time sometimes. In addition my wife never has PIV orgasms and she always needs external stimulation and I have recently found out (from the posts here) that masturbation and watching porn may be the reason. I think that was a little bit disorganised but i decided to throw it out as it comes to my mind. Any help and advice are well appreciated.
I'm assuming you seek out sexting partners from the internet? A good step to recovery is to definitely stop that behavior, it is a form of emotional infidelity. If it helps come clean with your wife about it, then delete all those contacts. I've been having an issue with just mindlessly watching videos on my phone, so, maybe you and I should thing about having a time after work where the phone is put away or only limited to necessary calls( no texting, games etc.). Hang in there, bro. Starting off is always the roughest part about this. I'm only a week in, but it's been worth it so far
Cool cool. I need to lay the phone down as well lol. A statgery that I've been using is, when you get home from work, place the phone somewhere where it's out of sight but somewhere where you could still hear it if an emergency call is Made to you. Also, I no longer let my phone get very close to my bed or anywhere near me when it's nighttime, I keep it on a dresser, where I would physical have to get up to pick it up and use it. In the modern age, we've all become a little lazy, so adding more effort to access the phone acts as a good deterrent. stay strong, and stay busy too( helps a lot).
I agree with the keeping busy part . However my phone is the best way to keep me busy usually . Also i am here on my phone but i agree about night time
Just make sure your phone is only used for things that enhances your life. No mindless surfing like I do . Learning apps are great, I have a chess app, which is great way to use my phone productively. Good luck
Best wishes man... I hv been through this loop..i was sexting with like dozen of girls..collecting picture and video and masterbating in free time...one day i realized that i m going very down as human..i am doing anything for new picture and it's never ending.. I became a pervert.. I hated myself for that...but one day i decided to stop all this bullshit...i deleted my account but didn't deleted the pics n videos.. Then again after sometimes i came bck to same routine..after that i realize i must hv to delete these pics..so finally i did it..and now today it's 50 days..and still maintaining it..stay strong broda...u r not d only one
So today is the 3rd day . Yesterday was very hard at night. I was so turned on and I want to M but luckily i was able to get rid of the temptation and fall asleep
right on brother! Good to get it going asap and write it up when you can. Writing it down is a key part of this process. don't forget about that. Great going!
