I just discovered my little brother has discovered you know what and bothers it bothers the crap out of me. I was the one who reccomended my parents that he get a phone, and to top it all off its undertale stuff. I always hated that game and it has come to haunt me more. I also have a sneaking suspicion that he has also been looking up male characters and while I dont have a problem with that as much we live in a Christian household and I worry about my parents reaction. I feel even more responsible for screwing my brother up as well, because while I'm on a streak now, I have been weak and relapsed in my bed, and it's possible he might have seen despite me hiding and covering up, since sleeping is something he simply sucks at. If any of you have a spare millstone and a deep river, please give them to me. Can't promise you'll get them back but they'll see plenty of use!
Well how old is your brother? Would he listen to you? I'd strongly recommend that you have a talk with him about the negative side effects of it before it's too late.
It also depends on what kind of relationship you have with him. If he looks up to you or at least pays attention to what you say, then you could perhaps offer him some advice. But don't take too much responsibility for his activity: You're not his parent (this is the older of two brothers talking, here), and so while you can be a support and a companion, you aren't his authority. Keep that in mind, as well. God knows, we don't NEED someone to show us the world of PMO to discover it. Curious minds find it all on their own.
He's 13. I know and I'm dreading the conversation. He does look up to me, but since he's in his teens he has the rebel attitude where he does the complete opposite of what I tell him. So I'm worried. This is true, but our parents are old school. This is stressing me out
Look at it this way: Rome wasn't built in a day, and it's very hard for a pre-teen to tear it down in the same time. Be patient. Be present. Be watchful. And when the moment presents itself, be kind. You'll be able to help him. He's finding his way like all the rest of us, and he will make mistakes as we have all made. We can't prevent everything.
Ah that's good advice. I still feel extrodinarily guilty and nervous, but I do have to support him and teach him porn is not the way to go. Oh and undertale is this super popular rpg about monsters humans and what it means to be a monster. Many thought it was deep, but I thought it was shallow when it came down to it. Thanks for the advice.
Undertale is my favourite game, it gives you such an emotional impact it can't be paired by ANY game I've ever played in my life. So I don't get the hate but ok, everyone has his own tastes. Also what if your brothers found out "you know what"? Do you think people don't you you fap? I've always tried to hide the fact I fap but honestly: people havent born yesterday. As long as you say "I don't fap" people know, I'm kind of sure of it
Seriously? We gotta compare notes on RPG's sometime. It wasn't doing it for me at all. You raise a good point. My mom walked in on me once when I was younger and never brought it up, but at the same time I kinda wished she did, the shame of knowing for sure that someone knows is very different than having uncertain conformation, since I at the very least tend tend to rationalize that problem away if I dont know for sure. I have also been considering leaving it alone, but I don't want my brother to go down the same path of self loathing and finding comfort in imaginary women/men I did. I also think He'd have a much easier time quitting if he started NOW rather than later. when I consider that I realize I would be even more of a sucky bother if I didnt talk with him about it.
