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Sex was taking over and ruining my relationship

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by adam8819, Jun 12, 2017.

  1. Jun 12, 2017 #1
    adam8819

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    Hi everyone,
    my issue is with masturbation, but more importantly, the feeling that I get when my dick takes control of my mind and my actions.
    A few times I have begged and pressured my girlfriend into fooling around simply because my dick was controlling my mind and actions and I wasn't thinking clearly. This is something that I would never do in a normal frame of mind, I respect her more than I respect myself.
    It happened again recently and I've had enough. It puts an obvious strain on the relationship and it's the only thing that would possibly make her leave me. I love her too much to sit back and watch that happen. I'm here to get rid of these animalistic instincts for good.
    Please if anyone could share any advice for something like this that would be greatly appreciated.
     
    adam8819, Jun 12, 2017
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  2. Jun 12, 2017 #2
    favre4ever

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    If you respect your girlfriend so much then you need to prove it to yourself and to her. Not being harsh, just be a man of honor and integrity. That's all a women could ask for in a partner.
     
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  3. Jun 12, 2017 #3
    lantti

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    Your mind is fooling you again. Your dick is never in control. It's your own brains.

    Oh yes you were. Really clearly. I remember once just before relapse, I managed to install flash player in linux, something that I couldn't do for couple of days, in ten minutes, so I could watch porn (I still have no idea how I did that). Your problem therefore is that you're not thinking clearly right now. You need to use that will constantly and be on guard constantly, so you'll learn to think clearly constantly. Fooling yourself leads only to the next relapse.
     
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  4. Jun 12, 2017 #4
    Lightness of Heart

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    So in your eyes, wanting to have sex with your girlfriend is disrespecting her? If you want to get rid of your animalistic nature for good then I suggest castration. For your sake I hope you would go for the chemical route as others might be very painful.

    Or you might start respecting yourself and your needs as well as hers. That might be the only thing that will not make her leave you in the end.
     
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