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Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Blackenglish2017, Jun 14, 2017.

  1. Blackenglish2017

    Blackenglish2017 Fapstronaut

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    and I mean everywhere. Do a school run to drop off you children at school and you see mums in tight jeans and leggings with the outline of there underwear visible from G strings to thongs.

    What is a man got to do? Stay inside?
     
  2. LivinginRecovery

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    I know. I hear you. Everywhere. Even in bus shelter advertisements. There's no getting away from it.
     
  3. Not exactly sex, just that our brains are used to associate female=sex, in time you'll just see a beautiful woman, who's hot, but she's not going to be linked to sex anymore, you'll see the person, not the sexual object.
     
  4. Buddhabro

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    Ignore it. Women don't dress like that for you or me or any man. It's just a competition...kinda like men who are bodybuilders; they are seeking attention in order to feed their egos, and feel dominant.
    The women who show up at work, or school (or places like that) dressed in a overtly provocative way are behaving inappropriately.
    The most irritating of them all is the bitch who'll walk around the hotel lobby, shop, or restaurant in their bikinis! That shit is disgusting!
     
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  5. r8js

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    yes, unfortunately, mainly "ADVERTISEMENTS" is biggest reason for it.
    we might see/watch more virtual woman on tv/in advertisements/in movies/in dramas than we actually see/watch totally man plus woman.
     
  6. I've also noticed that society seems to want people, especially men, to believe that if they're not having sex every single day (preferably with a different person, too) then they're a complete loser. I often wonder what the end goal is.
     
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  7. Exactly.
     
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  8. Blackenglish2017

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    That is true.
     
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  9. Themadfapper

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    That would get awfully tiring. I think morally bankrupt people are easier to control as are junkies/ sex addicts in the sense that their mind is often on one thing only. Of course, someone dealing with an out of control junkie may disagree with me.
     
  10. KrmGrn

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    The problem isn't that it exists in the world or even that you notice it or might have an instinctive response to it. Problems happen when we seek it out, indulge in it, and act on it. What those things.
     
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  11. kingpietro

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    It seems more and more girls are dressing more slutty and wearing less clothes.. i noticed it to especially in the summer

    I thinx mgtow is right woman have a lot of sex to make sure her offspring will
    watch mgtow cock carousel video if you want more information about it.

    i thinx i might agree on the cock carousel video of mgtow:

     
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  12. Well youre not gonna change society...just deal with it...gotta figure it out at some point.
    I love how some people especially Americans (which I also am) get so enamored by topless women at European beaches...its common and expected and no one else is making a fuss, but yes the european men are still scanning with their big sunglasses discreetly. In the manufacturing floor I go to in Italy, as soon as any mildly attractive girl hits the floor work stops.

    Just embrace it and get used to it and dont condition your body to every random boob it sees means it gets an O.

    I do really love the country girl look...boots, hat, and short shorts either covered completly by and oversize plaid or the plaids been tied into a makeshift bra
     
  13. Josh88

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    It is not that sex is everywhere. We (men) are the ones who like to fantisize and objectify women in our heads everytime we see an attractive woman. It is not women's fault that they are attractive. We as a society have oversexualized women's body parts. We can't control how women dress today (they have the right to choose how they want to dress). However, we can control how to respond. Don't stay inside. Don't play the victim role. Be out there and change how you respond.
     
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  14. Josh88

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    It is not women's fault that they are attractive and you have a problem with it. Women have every right to dress how they want. It is us (men) who have made a habit of fantasizing and objectifying their bodies in our heads. The human body is not something to be ashamed of. We can't shame others just because they happen to be attractive. Women can't change how attractive they are. You can't tell a woman what to wear. We can't control that. However, we can control how we want to respond when we see someone attractive. You can either objectify and sexualize them into body parts, or you can be thankful that God made beautiful female human beings and appreciate them for who they are.
     
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  15. Themadfapper

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    I fight fire with fire. I wear yoga pants that are two sizes too small they very graphically outline my groin area[ which has been enhanced]. Along with wearing a tiny halter top [ no crossdresser]. I also have huge pec implants that the halter top really shows off. On top of that, I wear a ton of makeup that makes me look like I'm in the midst of having an orgasm.

    It's a lot of work, but fuck anyone who tells me not to be me. I got to be myself and fuck anyone who objectifies me.
     
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  16. Josh88

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    Well said Latinboy32! Is NOT that sex is everywhere. It is how we have objectified women into body parts. We can't blame women just because they happen to be attractive and we (men) have a problem with it. We cannot tell women what to wear or how to dress. Instead, we (men) have to change how we think.
     
  17. Don't think you are powerless. Anyone can change society with enough perseverance and strategy. [​IMG]
     
  18. Yeah, women ( some of them, not generalizing of course) are not at fault for dressing like sluts, showing their tits and pussies. I am at fault, it's my mistake, I take the blame. What a load of bollocks, man....
     
  19. Josh88

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    Yup. It's called being responsible. Quit blaming women for having bodies. Take resposability for what you do with your eyes. If not, I heard that in some parts of the middle east women wear burqas. You will be just fine there.
     
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  20. Josh88

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    "for dressing like sluts"?? What does that even mean? So... according to your logic, if you go to the beach and see women in bikinis, does that mean that they are dressing like sluts? Certainly, a woman in bikini is "showing more" than a woman dressed like a slut. It doesn't make sense.
     
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