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What is the deal with wet dreams?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Cyan, Jul 16, 2017.

  1. Cyan

    Cyan Fapstronaut

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    Hello there

    I have not been in the NoFap community for long, it has only been a few days, but I keep seeing posts and concerns about Wet dreams and ejaculating during sleep.

    I wanted to ask why this is an issue? NoFap is a mental challenge for self betterment and porn addiction, having a wet dream will change absolutely nothing except the bedsheeds, but it apparently still gets discussed and lemented against here. I am simply curious as to how people think wet dreams interfere with their NoFap challenge or have any kind of impact on the road to self betterment.

    Cheers
     
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  2. Flyhigh

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    I love wet dreams, I just had one again this midnight.
     
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  3. Connor21

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    It's because you feel like shit after it happens. Its hard to explain but your mind definitely tells you that you let yourself down. Obviously, there was nothing you could do so it doesn't matter.
     
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  4. Flyhigh

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    Yep the lost of fluid is what most are trying to prevent but since we can't do anything about it, why not enjoy it.
     
  5. Connor21

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    I wouldn't try to enjoy it tho, that might lead your thoughts to somewhere you don't want to go. Just enjoy the fact that wet dreams are a sign of progress.
     
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  6. male!

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    if you truly dedicated yourself to nofap, your consciousness and subconsciousness will be at war with each other when you having a wet dream, you will feel conflicted contradicted and betrayed, cuz either side loses, you lose.
     
  7. NewWorld115

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    I just had a compoundedwet wet dream within a wet dream.
    What was strange that out of 6 times, twice I was given an option ( in my dream) to cut it or fuck it when I was close to ejacuation. I remember 4 of them vividly.
    The funny thing is, I'm dedicated to nofap but my mind chooses fuck it everytime and I wake up feeling sticky.
     
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  8. Fightthedevil

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    Wet Dreams,here most people have as far as i can say are like this-"You find your self masturbating to a porn star in your dream" or "you have dream of a porn video you watched ages ago".So for a moment we think "Fuck We Relapsed".But everyone needs to understand that wet dreams are sign of recovery.Your Body is Getting Used to the natural ways to release Semen and that's Frigging Good Thing.
    Peace out.Good Luck!
     
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  9. Fork2323

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    Two big issues for me..

    1, I have had a wet dream cause a heavy relaps. Once i got the dopamine hit the cravings set back in and I started fapping again and just on its own it broke my reboot process. Im an addict and once I get the first crack hit I crave More!

    2. Alot of guys on here including me are into saving their Chi and tantra etc. So loosing their life force through a wet dream also takes away some of their Super Powers that is talked about on here so much when you get lots of time without a release.

    So why i dont like wet dreams? Can start a relaps, loose my life force.. scary part about it? I have almost no control over it as its when im asleep.

    But, i have also had the exeriance now 2x that in the dream I Stopped and did Not follow through with the sex act and turned it down. I felt like it was a major milestone in my recovery as even my subconsiouse wanted to not relpase and saved me! Really cool.

    So i see wet dreams as not a Relaps, but it can be a Set Back of recovery and reboot process.
     
  10. Wet dreams are not bad, they can bring much earned relief, but the release can lead to stronger desires to relapse for a time, as well as some people say it causes them to loose energy. The result is unique for many. But I will say they feel so relieving when you've been clean for a long time.
     
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  11. andromeas

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    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Succubus

    Succubus is the most problem of fappers because have better energy to be stealed ( three treasures according of taoism)

    When you have bonner in the mor ing better to do headstand so to send the energy in the head

    And try to to use in the penis clove oil before sleep because the penis is very sensitive
     
  12. Cyan

    Cyan Fapstronaut

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    So its spiritual people being afraid of their energy and stuff then?

    Yea okay, that answers my question, thank you a lot!
     

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