Hey Guys, I have joined this website because I am here to prove that I am not controlled by the will to masturbate over porn videos. I am here become a better person. I know it is a great challenge but I also now know that I am not the only one facing this challenge. It is extremely encouraging knowing that people have gone though the same struggle but finally broke free. I believe I can become a better person. -TheCuredMan(soon)
It takes much more than "willpower" my friend. 1) Recognize, accept and admit that you have an addiction. 2) Do whatever it is you need to do to eliminate your access to porn or whatever triggers you suffer. 3) Be honest with yourself and accept that you will falter and fail yourself. 4) Learn from your mistakes and get better with each and every attempt. 5) Do not give up on yourself, Never stop trying... 6) Never forget that you are an addict and will ALWAYS be weak in the face of temptation. 7) Accept that There's no "cure". Only your ability to re-program your mind, re-train your body and your choices. 8) This is Physical, emotional and mature self improvement.
CuredMan, NeverStop is 100% correct. The beauty of this site is that we all know what each other are going though generically, and we're all fighting the same battle basically. That means no body is here to judge, and everyone here is in it to encourage each other, share experiences, solutions and failures for the benefit of each other. The steps outlined above are dead on. You can do this, but you'll need to "suit up" with the tools above. Let us know if you have questions or how we can help. Best wishes to you and welcome!
