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I appreciate your caring, but I think that's where we need some equanimity and know our boundaries. Your part is simply to be there to be accountable, so you have in fact done your job and they are telling you so that relationship is working. You are not responsible for them to not relapse, it is not possible for anyone else to control anothers success.
Motivation isn't given IMO, it has to be seen and appreciated. People who do not even know the person or are not in direct communication can read some third partys story and be inspired, the important thing is they paid attention. Unfortunately with addiction we are in our own heads too much to notice these things a lot of times, and maybe the beginning is to just lift up our heads and see what's there.
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