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I'm only just beginning to see my dream. The waiting can feel like it takes so long but as my dream awakens, my heart unfolds...and it becomes so beautiful you hardly notice that the whole song is almost over.
Hehe noh..sorry.
Right I got kinda nervous because I knew enveloped meant maybe hugged so I didnt want it to seem I meant I was enveloping you lol..and then my reply wasn't great because I wanted to make sure I was understood and also it was an awkward reply in general
Yah. I'm a pessimist but you make it sound good : )
Hmm.. Since you say for the sake of argument..I cant tell if you meant a woman (who has a crush on you) ..but supposing it is..I'll continue and I'll say
I can't imagine anyone not liking your words..hehe, who doesn't love a person who wears their heart on their sleeve? I feel sort of awkward because I barely know you and this is hard to try to answer or give advice on.. perhaps we could go to inbox and talk more on it
Lol.. *gulp* This is hard.
Hmm. Well, I just want to preface this with the facts that I dont know you well and rhat all women are different..through some of my presumed perceptions, I see you as sort of an intense person, which theres nothing wrong with that, but maybe when you meet someone tread lighter/slower..because
because it can be sort of overwhelming..like you give out huge chunks of your life out to people here..so fast and easily..not only that but of your heart, and you show your entirety so soon..which I like that and I try and do that too but sometimes it doesnt work out in our favor, lol ..and I know this is the internet so people are more open and at a faster speed than actuality..but ya.
Some questions to ask yourself: Are you pretty put together, are you figuring things out, are you fixed in one place, willing to work harder to change some things you know wont be particularly attractive, are you a working man, are you making friendships with women and putting yourself out there..last but not least are you trying your best, dear @letter?
To end this para I also wanna say you sound like a great guy though, funny, witty, philosophical, creative and intelligent in all the right areas and at the right times and also attractive.
No one can go through what I’ve been through and come out normal. I am so surprised I’m even alive to have this conversation with you. That’s not just this year, but decades of experience. I shouldn’t be alive right now, many times over, and that is something my heart cannot forget.
I don’t know how long I have left. My life is sooooo weird. It’s not like I’m sick or anything, but once you’ve seen death X-number-of-times and have lived through it...you start to really wonder.
Living another year isn’t something I take for granted. Maybe I’ll have decades. Maybe I’ll live to be an old man.
I’ve got some valuable stuff inside of me. It’s why my life is the way it is. I carry something precious inside me, and it seems like the world just wants to snuff it out and me with it.
So because I don’t know when it’s over, I want to make sure I do everything I can with what I’ve got. I don’t want to stand before God and have to tell Him I squandered what He gave me.
I’ve got some things I could work on for sure. But I really wonder sometimes if I am meant to be alone. I’ve made my peace with that, but just when it seems settled in my heart...everyone starts asking me “So, do you ever think about having a girlfriend?”
Well, I'm glad you're here and having this conversation with me. I hope you have plenty of time left here on earth, Letter. I don't know what you've been through but you shine away the darkness and that's why you're still here and going to stay here till you're an old man.
lol.
I hope you get enveloped sometime soon! There are many women out there that would want to put you in an envelope and put a They're waiting for a Letter in their lives..to spray perfume on and put a wax stamp and to keep forever like a treasure.
Hmm. You've got a build a strong F.F.F: Firm Friendship Foundation...you gotta start with friendship..be you and as time goes on, share about some of the issues in your life be open , but also try and present yourself without so much of the bad..but just your character and everything about..like present who you are from the heart..
then maybe once it's established that yall have feelings for each other gently and carefully lead the convo into what she might experience if she was yours..and sort of let her decide if she wants to stay and try or go..
and if she wants to stay and try ..think how to make it different than the last time a woman was in your life or a friend that left because of the fact your life is overwhelming for them..
make a plan together..conquer it together..the right ones stay through everything..they stay for you..and figure it out, maybe its best to distance yourself from whats complicating your life so much..like, move away literally sometime..make a goal and work with your partner and fix things as best as possible..
You say I shine away the darkness...you are trying to make me cry, aren’t you? No, you’re not. I don’t think you realize what you’re saying, or more so...how I would take this.
But you’re saying something true? You’re not just saying that to say that, are you? Fascinating.
Yes,I feel like you are..since you've overcome so much and you still spread so much happiness, laughhter, love, goodness, advice, care, advice around here, it's telling to how you are in actuality I think..
and so see, you shine..the darkness won't be able to get you especially since I've seen you have God by your side.
One thing God has told me, a few times now, is “relax”
That’s one thing I gotta work on. How to have peace when all around me is darkness...’cuz that’s what I’ve been through. Endless darkness. But I didn’t let it take my light, did I?
Yeah, it wasn’t you trying to make me cry. Was God. He gets me every time.
Ofc, you’ve said so many good things here. Lots of it I could take to heart if the chance arises.
But hey, you’re amazing too.
There’s been this pain, buried deep within my heart. I barely made it here, the wounds are real. The only way, at times, was to let go of my light and leave it in God’s hands. If I tried to hold on, I would have lost it. But because I let go, He kept me safe.
Thank you again, Letter. I'm glad to have made you feel a little better, that was my aim..I just hope its true..but I know you're an honest man.
I also know there are plenty more people with much more advice for you, I hope they can help you.
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