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And that thing is just the nature of human. But i doesn’t define me, or me stumble at the old guilty way. I no longer, just no. I’m a person and i cannot prevent nature of human.
One sure thing is Nofap changes me and i never ever go back. I’m sure that. But sometimes stumble happened, accept it and move on, keep going and living.
I can put on a mask (figuratively or literally) or play a role of a calm person in real life if I feel i can’t really believe in myself after a bad thing happened, but i still “fake it until you make it”. I don’t like “fake” but sometimes it’s good.
Good thing about relapse is I’m not haunted by the idea of it anymore and keep going to get back on track. If I don’t, my mind is just not working clearly.
It's great to be able to pick yourself up with little time. Good job. Feelings are important though. They define you. You can't shut your feelings forever and when I do that I feel bad for myself. This self deserves to be heard and to be listened to. It empowers my actions,therefore, I won't shut these feelings down but I'll let them propel me forward.
@fg4795 Thank you. I need like a week to get my feelings to normal again. Now i have to keep a mask up, play a calm person role like normal but i don’t feel that way @@.
@Thors yeah. Now my feeling is confused and shamed. But i still have to start my day. It’s just take time to get to normal again, and it’s really hard.
It shouldn't be that hard,halph. You shall find your way soon. I'm not sure what is normal for me too but I'm not bothered and I don't think that I've been putting up masks or anything so I'm gucci.
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