Comments on Profile Post by The human failure

What's garbage about that? Girls won't go for someone that hates themselves. Begin to like yourself and gain confidence in yourself, and someone will find you :)

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It would help if they weren't asking for the impossible >.<

Yeah, I dislike dating articles for the same reason.

I know right? It's like "wow, I've never thought about not hating myself before! It's soooo easy!"

Haha, yeah...I get what you're saying. For me, it's like "I already hated myself, and now you're telling me that I'm un-datable because I hate myself? Thanks, now I hate myself for hating myself" and it becomes a vicious cycle.

My friend suggested that I need to learn how to forgive myself, so I can acknowledge my issues without maligning myself for having them. Maybe that's what we need?

Heheh maybe! I have no idea how to do that though xD I'll have to try that once I figure out exactly how to do it. Cause right now I have no idea!

I know what you mean. I still don't know how, but this article helped me a little: http://www.wellbeingalignment.com/self-forgiveness.html it might not be your kind of thing but just thought I'd share just in case.

Self hatred is the product of love? I've never heard that before. Interesting >.<