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  1. IGY
    IGY
    First, don't panic. Secondly, don't be mad at yourself as negative emotions can cause a binge. Thirdly, identify what this repeated mistake is. Fourthly, Plan a strategy that will help you when you are in a similar situation in future. In this way you learn and become more resilient my friend.
    Nov 19, 2021
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  2. Kay Kazama
    Kay Kazama
    'Tis alright brother. I used to do it once every 3 days. With persistence I made it to 7-8 days. No it's easier for me to reach those days easily.
    Remember it takes time to break bad habits and this habit has been with us for years. It's gonna take a while.
    So relax and have faith. What you did is normal. Now try reaching more than 10, maybe 12 is a good start.
    Nov 19, 2021
  3. Khufu
    Khufu
    does it usually happen in your room, what time usually does it take place, whats the regular things your doing prior the relapse ?
    Nov 19, 2021
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  4. Indian Youth
    Indian Youth
    @IGY Thanks mate! I will!
    Nov 20, 2021
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  5. Da User
    Da User
    You are member since just 95 days and I think it's a very good start. May God grant us too.
    Nov 20, 2021
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  6. Deleted Account
    Deleted Account
    You can't keep white-knuckling this addiction. Are you doing introspective work (e.g. journaling) when you relapse, encounter a slip up, or whenever you're in a generally bad mood that *could* lead to a relapse? If not, you're not going to learn from your mistakes.
    Nov 20, 2021
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  7. Deleted Account
    Deleted Account
    If you've had a PMO addiction for several years, it's gonna be hard to quit it by just substituting other activities to do instead of porn.
    Nov 20, 2021
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  8. Deleted Account
    Deleted Account
    You need to dig deep down in yourself to identify the root problem of your addiction. That's hard to do, and requires practice, so if it's too much then start small: when you relapse or slip-up, start by identifying the emotions behind that, which is typically done through self-talk/journaling. Once you identify those emotions, figure out a solution that'll prevent you from making the same mistake next time.
    Nov 20, 2021
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  9. 88991s
    88991s
    I m sorry to hear you relapsed. Keep going buddy. Lots of love.
    Nov 21, 2021
  10. Indian Youth
    Indian Youth
    @88991s thanks!
    I'm ready to fight again!
    Nov 21, 2021
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  11. stanislavKhass
    stanislavKhass
    a cold shower for 10 minutes, it's incredibly cool helps
    Nov 22, 2021
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  12. Follower of God❤️
    Follower of God❤️
    @Indian Youth Why are you doing mistakes repeatedly, just figure that out buddy.
    Are you properly putting efforts? Are you eating healthy and not overeating.
    These things help in faster recovery. :)
    Nov 24, 2021
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