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How do I view the lack of control? I see it as people trying to get the better of me and exclude me. If I embrace the lack of control? I view it as nature/god bringing only worthwhile people into my circle.
How do I view my unhealthy body? As something that holds me back from living the life I deserve. If I embrace the discomfort? I view it as a machine/temple that allows me to exist in the physical world. I am inspired to treat it well.
How do I view the lack of pair bonding? As evidence that I am unworthy of a good partnership. If I embrace the discomfort? An opportunity to create the man I want to be before selecting a partner for the man. If I have not met the man I will become, how shall I find him a suitable partner?
How do I view the financial irresponsibility? As a shameful failure to secure my preferred future. If I embrace the discomfort? I feel guilt rather than shame. I should feel bad about not saving, more importantly, I should feel good about saving. Shame will not lead to goodness.
How do I view the lack of energy? As the inability to get my work done. If I embrace the feeling? As an opportunity to move slowly. As an opportunity to turn work into a meditation.
How do I view my loneliness? As proof that I am unlikable. If I embrace the pain? As a chance to recharge in solitude. As an opportunity to turn pain into a meditation.
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