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Thanks @Eve26 for pointing me towards this thread. So sad, but eye-opening. Thank you.
You say it'd be an emotional death sentence, and I sense it. I don't think I'd cope if I had to tell myself that I knew the pain, yet agreed to it...
I believe both are helpful, but insufficient to properly tackle the addiction. As a result, I am more firmly considering the wedding.
I don't want to give up on him as he genuinely is a great guy, and I love him. We have talked about what he'd be ready to do to enter recovery....
@Eve26 - again, thank you. I very much value your opinion, and deep down agree with you, should wait for him to be steadily in recovery before...
Mind you, had I fully grasped the consequences of porn and addiction, I would not have offered to watch that together - it would not have helped...
I am against being with someone that finds no interest in real life sex, someone who lies repeatedly about what he does, when and where, etc. etc....
@Zyn. I am not against porn (only against some abuse, most commonly against women, in the industry), not against masturbation. But I am against...
he isn't talking much at all. I hope we can soon have a deep conversation about this. I, too, need to know what he really wants for the future.
I think I agree about postponing the wedding. Such a difficult time. I wrote him a letter explaining how I feel, that I am here for him, and that...
