Can't say anything new or shocking here that you have not read in a number of these newby posts so I won't try. What I will say is that I have a wife who tolerates me most of the time, loves me some of the time and two kids who have a half a dad. That is not the life I wanted for myself and all my previous attempts to change have failed. Now I look to you for understanding, sympathy and humor. Seriously please make me laugh again. That would be nice. Peace.
I'm in your shoes bro. My wife was amazingly supportive and I hope yours will be too. You took the right first step. U are here
welcome! I am still new but not new to PMO (over 30 years and I am 46). I am divorced and although PMO didn't lead directly to my divorce, I know it had indirect effects for sure. If you value your marriage which it sounds like you do, stay strong and keep coming to the forums to help overcome this affliction. I can also offer that the writing and journaling part isnt so much for others to read as it is for you to get stuff out of your head and out in front of you. It helps...Good Luck!
Hello please go to PMO habits and behavior, just for a laugh and look for my post, and keep it up my friend you are not alone, be in peace with yourself we all are in the same boat but we are going to get to our destiny, PMO free!!
IsThisIt, welcome to the forum! As the other guys have said, you're in the right place and on the right path. My suggestion is to take a long term approach to changing your habits... they took a long time to form, so you gotta be patient with your development. Also, if you need a good laugh, I just posted about a great clip I saw on the weekend about getting caught looking at porn! Hang in there bro, we're all walking the path with you.
Our self-fucking addiction is not a laugh matter but on the bright side, at least it is not illegal! lol Guys and girls we will overcome this. Each day with no porn is a victorious day. We may lose some battles but no need to be ashemed, depressed or hopeless. Let's make the victorious days compound and carry on the transformation
