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30 days for the first time in 8 years !!

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by frankied, Jul 28, 2015.

  1. Jul 28, 2015 #1
    frankied

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    I've made it 1/3 through my 90 day challenge :)

    I should be more proud of myself because it was really challenging, but i am not really proud and i still have 60 days to go, and probably longer from there on hehe.

    I have experienced many ups and downs in this period, probabably more then in the period before nofap, very extreme emotions from time to time, alot of them were painfull, as if i was ignoring them all the time before.

    I know everyone can do this, it is hard, but if you make a clear decission to quit, you will quit. I don't use porn blockers or anything like that, because i know if i wanted to watch i would find a way anyway.

    I said to myself, if i get the urge, ill listen to music to keep my mind busy, and if that doesn't work, i will walk out of the room. I had to use those strategies a few times and they really work for me. It's helpfull if you plan your distraction before hand so when you get the urge you know what to do immediatly without thinking.

    These are the little changes i have made in a month time :

    - A bit more social
    - Less validation seeking ( especially from girls ), i even disagreed with a girl ( that is quite special for me )
    - More honest with myself and others
    - More confident
    - More vivid dreams
    - Stand up for myself more
    - Little bit less social anxiety
    - Appreciate nature more, as well as little things like seeing someone i like smile.
    - More random boners and mornig wood
    - Girls are finally getting attractive again ... :)

    These things grow really slowly so it is hard to notice, and sometimes i feel the total opposite, but in general there is an improvement so i will keep going, i know it's the best thing to do. I hope my next milestone at 60 days will be even a bit better.
     
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  2. Jul 28, 2015 #2
    amrr

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    Bro, you're the man.

    My best record was 3 weeks in 10 years .. I know the PMOing is my biggest problem in life .. and I'm looking forward to nothing but being where you are now :)

    I hope you never collapse, I hope you do your 90 days .. I hope you manage to keep yourself alive, I hope I do as well
     
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  3. Jul 28, 2015 #3
    Zinc

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    Keep holding that cum in. I have punished myself drinking plenty of tea mixed with Tribulus and Cautaba also popped 100mg Zinc a day so that I get extra horny and make it extra painful for myself. When I look at a womans hair now I get a boner, but as a martyr I will keep myself from fapping and engage in sexual stimulation. But I will have sex again after 100 days of hardcore mod, my balls hurt sometimes but I feel very energetic and agressive. I'm a man and I'm going to take this pain as a man.
     
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  4. Jul 29, 2015 #4
    frankied

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    Bro you have the sickest challenge ever. 5 years lol, if you want it you can make it though :)
     
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  5. Jul 29, 2015 #5
    frankied

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    You can do it too man ! Honnestly after about 3 weeks it becomes easier. The urges are still here offcourse but it's about unlearning the habit.

    Find things to do to enjoy yourself. but even if you have nothing to do make a clear decision that you will not give in, leave the house if you need to.

    Good luck Bro ...

    Cold showers help as well i think :p
     
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  6. Jul 29, 2015 #6
    Zinc

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    I'm doing it for real, if these 5 years turn into nothing special than I can say with conviction that nofap is overrrated, but I don't think so I think this 5 years I'm going to kick plenty of ass!
     
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  7. Jul 29, 2015 #7
    KingGray

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    @frankied Keep it up man! You can do it!!!

    Fuck yeah! Love the attitude bro. No shame in positive masculinity. I for one fully embrace it. We have to man-up, kick the porn, and live a life of real experiences and interactions. That said, a five year challenge is a bit much. I would opt to re-evaluate at least once a year as you'll grow, change, and your priorities may shift.
     
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  8. Jul 29, 2015 #8
    Cooldude4

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    @Zinc man.. Believe me, I too face some time over aggression. Not sure why but I enjoy it.
    ;)
    @frankied
    All the best and keep it going.
     
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  9. Jul 29, 2015 #9
    Zinc

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    I train muy thai, helps me with the agression, feels great even if it fucks my legs up. Masculinity all the way baby!
     
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