40 Years old...just starting out.

Hi all,

For a few years now I've been slowly developing ED. My (now ex) partner was 23 and I was 38 - she had an incredible body and face and was (is) as sexy as hell, yet I found that after 10 minutes or so I would start to go soft...not soft enough that I couldn't finish the job, but noticable.

I was watching porn the whole time I was with her.

She left around a year ago, and the porn increased - probably 4-6 times a day. I then shortly met another girl - hot, slim, filthy in bed, and for a short while it was fine again, but but very quickly I noticed the same symptoms. That was a short lived affair.

I then met another girl, again 23 years old - hot, smooth skin and very pretty. The first time we got down to it, I slipped on a rubber, and literally at the crucial moment went completely soft. This happened a few times, and then I was given some viagra by a friend that *almost* sorted it out - once or twice I didn't need it and could just about perform with a semi-hard penis.

I googled the symptoms and apparently men in their 40s experience this after coming out of a long-term relationship, so put it down to that.

All the time I was still watching porn. I started to think that porn might be the cause of it, so deleted everything and watched nothing for a week or two and things seemed to improve slightly.
Of course, we shortly split up, and the porn usage increased.

Oddly, I have a female friend who I regularly go to 'things' with as we both have kids - sadly she's married. She gave me a hug the other day when I dropped her off at home and I was rock solid in seconds.

Then, out of the blue, a friend of a friend simply popped into my house this week and more-or-less begged me to f*** her. I could hardly refuse, so took her upstairs. I was 3/4 hard the whole time, and after going down on her for a while I lost it completely.

After reading a lot of the accounts on here, I'm convinced that this is porn related ED. I'm fit, slim, play sports reasonably regularly etc...

I'm now on my second day of nofap.