A 38 days long 'cease fire' just stopped

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by CaptNoFap, Jun 4, 2015.

  1. CaptNoFap

    CaptNoFap New Fapstronaut

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    Heya Everyone, unfortunately today I gave up my first journey with NoFap... Exactly 1 week ago I made love with my gf and it was awesome for both even if it lasted just 15 mins (no PIED).
    Anyway, today I felt a huge sexual need so I picked a photo of a girl in FB (who wasn't even naked or wearing a bikini) and I 'surrendered' to my body.
    Since these last weeks I've had 1 sexual relationship a week with my girl... so my question is: do you think that this moment of weakness could give me other ED problems with her?
    PS: I don't need porn anymore and I did not think of it at all during these 38 days.

    Who dares wins.
    I feel ready to restart!

    greetings :) from a guilty and ashamed fapstronaut
     
  2. Mitre

    Mitre Fapstronaut

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    Hey there CaptNoFap,

    You didn't surrender to your body, you surrendered to your mind my friend. It may not give you ED problems now but if you keep conditioning yourself to react to P and P subs, when the time comes to make love to your woman again you won't be as interested as you should be, your sexual mind will only want artificial stimulation. If you do start experiencing PIED you may have to do HARDMODE which I don't think you want do if you are enjoying your woman, so that's another thing to think about.

    Get back on that horse and go all the way this time :)
     
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