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A year and a half - Finally reset

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by Wancawi, Oct 1, 2022.

  1. Wancawi

    Wancawi Fapstronaut

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    I started this nofap thing a long, long time ago and after about a year I stopped believing it will ever actually work for me, there were no improvements at all. I decided to never go back to masturbating though, so did another 6 months of monk mode on this. Now I feel like I actually do have some of these superpowers and that I might have reset. I was occasionally looking at tiktok videos, but even that habit has disappeared. I see that meditation is real important in this, these superpowers appear when I meditate each day. I'm getting a lot of sexual attraction now, and its when the sexual attraction is there that I have all this confidence, and I see I go into a meditative state when interacting with females and this charm thing happens. I see that I get a lot of good feelings just talking to females and I dont need to have any sexual relations, these emotional relations are way more than enough. Its definitely challenging cuz the emotional attraction turns sexual but I have it well under control.

    I would say its best not to have any timeline with this nofap thing and just do it with no expectation of anything happening. Theres more to it than just not masturbating, theres a whole transformation in lifestyle that needs to happen, and seems like nofap makes that transformation a lot more likely to happen. Other things are meditation, exercise, plant medicines, psychedelics and above all, walking the spiritual path, all these things go hand in hand.
     
  2. JosquinCk

    JosquinCk Fapstronaut

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    Thank you for let us it know, to me physical workout and outdoor sports helped me as well focusing on work. It has been a while now since I was using porn and masturbating with it. No brain fog anymore and feeling more control in my life, just enjoying sex with my partner. Sometimes happens that links or spam or socials boost the fap but somehow I can manage. for now it seems I found out a good balance, let's cross the fingers it will keep like that
     
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  3. Hellboy222

    Hellboy222 Fapstronaut

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    We are at the same amount of days my brotha
     
  4. HAWK_6

    HAWK_6 New Fapstronaut

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    Is your libido back? I have been trying to quit pmo for 4 years now (age 21). Currently on a 13 day streak went on 100+ days days 3 times, my depression and anxiety is gone i just have anhadonia (lack of pleasure). I am currently loosing hope
     
  5. amazing observations. same for me. i’ll try more meditation

    the cool thing is that the emotional connection and interaction with females is enough
     
  6. dth23

    dth23 Fapstronaut

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    I was curious about the timeline for your mind being reset from the damages of porn and living a balanced life. I guess it may be different for everyone. I meditated daily for about 2 months straight once and noticed a huge change in my life. I completely stopped thinking about porn fantasies and actually was consumed about ways to better my marriage and think of ways to better our sex life. Meditation is a daily thing to see improvements but I became distracted and stopped meditating. And I went back to my obsession with porn fantasies. I’m trying to get back into meditating and use that as a tool to break free. Also, the key I found to see results is to meditate, envision yourself in positive scenarios and make your brain notice fine details around you, such as, what does your environment smell like, look like, feel like. It’s your way of tricking the brain. So these imagined scenarios will register in your brain as real and create new pathways in your subconscious.
     

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