Hey guys I'm 20 I have DE I don't get hard unless I watch porn and touch myself or when my gf touches me I last a long time have no sensitivity I have done this before I'm on day 2 hopefully this helps
From what I've learned, it'll take a while. Obviously, we are all rooting for ya. Did you go long, b4? Courage, my brother!
In my case, I recently found (through trial and error) that nothing but complete abstinence (from SPMO) can lead to a healthier inner and outer (including physical) life. With all addiction, the key for me is to not just interrupt the madness but to immediately build up a different, healthier you, in which the addiction does not fit. For instance, if you wanted to quit smoking, it would help enormously to work on fitness and sport etc, evolve away from the cigarettes or what not. Testing does not help me -- in fact, that's so obvious, that I am not even interested. Of course, if I had another steady person to satisfy, sexual monkhood could be difficult to sustain. I've read a few accounts on here, but you should probably "talk" to someone who's been in that position. Power to ya!
Thanks man I have a girlfriend who loves sexual stuff and it Sucks I lose my errection because it don't feel that good I don't feel much from bjs either and I can go for so long and it's so hard to finish so I hope this process helps with my penis sensitivity hopefully it comes back and I can get hard again just by looking at girls in person rather then touch ...
You'll _both_ need lots of patience! Best of success to both of you! Maybe she'll want to join the NoFap grop for partners of Fapstronauts? Could help... Meanwhile, of course, you'll need more than just patience, but strength and coping skills. NoFap's great for that. Welcome back!
Hey friend, same case here, no ex gf I've ever had was able to give me an orgasm. How sad is that? A real woman right there next you and you have to touch yourself with your eyes closed and imagine porn just to get off, it was terrible. I'm on day 9 and let me tell you, I haven't had this much energy and erections in a long time, I can't give you a testimony of how sex will feel like in the future but, I have no doubt sex will become great again.
You just need to plan on the hard 90. They do not call it the hard 90 because it is easy. It's one of the most difficult things I ever did, but, if I can do it, anyone can. Keep going, porn is not an option.
