anxious about penis size

Yeah they are good at making them bigger than they are, some of them also need to take drugs to keep it up so it's not all as perfect as it appears. Kind of makes me sick knowing I've watched it for almost 2 decades. Had a chat with some other guys about this before and we agreed that because of porn, women think that a 6" dick is actually an 8" in real life and because of that they think that the average is 8" when really what they are thinking of is 6". I've even had girls say mine is 9" before because of them thinking the average is 8".

 

Honestly when I've whipped mine out while with a woman, I've been with 4 women so far in my life, they never said anything negative or mean about. Then sometimes I'd say something stupid like, sorry its not that big like 6", do you like really big dicks? Then they would say nothing and give a weird look like I'm crazy. This really an insecurity all in our heads from pornography.

 

As a gay guy, i have had A LOT of experiences with all sorts of dick sizes, and in fairness, i do prefer the 'smaller' sizes and medium sizes from the big / huge ones to be honest. I mean don't get me wrong, a big dick can be interesting, and 'wow' kind of thing, but when it comes to actual sex, what do you do with a huge gurkin or german bratwurst, i mean you can't deepthroat it without gagging, i.e. No fun, and taking it anywhere is out of quesiton if you want to be able to walk the day after lol. Sorry for being graphic, but it's totally true man, so you should never ever need to stress about your penis size, it's just not worth the effort, and being bi, i have been with many girls, and yes, some might prefer larger ones, but generally my experience with girls is not that the penis size matter in terms of satisfying your partner and stimulate the right parts, it's all about technique and the connection between the lovers. You just need to get out there and practice, find the girl you connect to on a personal level first, the sex will follow on naturally from than, (ones you done your nofap challenge that is hehe...;-), keep it up mate,

Ask me anything you want, i have written a few books about sex hehe,

Hugs a

 

Penis size isn't that big of a deal to women. If anything, "height" is.

I am a short guy. 5'4. I have a lot of things going well for me far beyond the average person. Probably one of my "hidden" secrets is that I have a 7.25 inch BPEL. Its not the biggest but it is for my height. I find it hard to believe to this day that I am actually bigger than the average guy (when the avg man in the USA is 5-6 inches taller than me). I basically have a "bruce lee" type of body (scrawny but not as chiseled) and being short... women probably expect me to be smaller than the avg.

Problem is? I cannot get a girl no matter how hard I try. I have a great job, zero debt, I am responsable...you name it yet I am always overlooked or passed up. This had led me to my fap addiction and an addiction that have took over my life for the past 10 years. I am hoping that doing nofap will finally change me for the better.

I know for a fact that being short is something girls will poke fun and studies out there have proven that short men got it bad.

Good luck!

 

We have so much in common I'm 5'4 and about 7.2" BPEL and also find it hard to believe I'm above average, most people assume cause we're small that our dicks must be small as well. We're the proof that dick size isn't related to height. You are right about women going for taller guys but there are some exceptions, I tend to associate with the best people I can find so the girls I know typically don't have a problem with height, I think if you're confident and nice to them and can make them smile then they can overlook superficial things like height and plus when they see our dicks, their jaws drop so it's all good

 

Thats too funny! It seems like height isn't a problem for you as it is for me.

 

it's just that if a girl is shallow and cares about my height, I don't really bother with her. I have the most beautiful girl best friend who is 5'9 and she had heels on at the club last week so she was like just over 6 foot and she would dance with me and doesn't care about my height. We would have been together but she has a boyfriend. Her friend was also inviting me to go home with her but I stopped having one night stands. It's all about the type of company you keep, I have had girls diss my height but I just ignored it and didn't pay any attention to them. If they see you're insecure about height then that can be a turn off for women though.

 

I'm a pretty tall guy who is apparently on the larger side as I think I'm 6.75". At the same time when flaccid my penis is pretty darn small. It's like a little acorn. I've worried about my size too. Anyone can worry about anything. But the thing is there is nothing you can do about it. No amount of worrying will change things.

It is true that guys joke about dick size. But guys make fun of almost anything in a general sense. Now if you were short statured and a 'friend' made fun of you then they aren't much of a friend. Along the same lines if they made fun of you for having a smaller dick then they aren't much of a friend. Of course how would they know that?

If you are worried about being with a girl who makes fun of your penis size then you need to only be involved with a girl who likes you. I doubt most would make fun of you. But a girl who you date for a long time before you have sex probably likes you and probably wouldn't make fun of you.

Life is full of things we don't like. Ruminating about things we can't change won't change anything except making us sad, depressed, or anxious. Accepting whatever is makes life a lot easier. Be proud of who you are however you happen to be made.

 

If size if something that really bothers anybody likes it the end of the world. You can make it longer supposedly by stretching it, its called jelqing exercises. Don't have to buy anything to do it, your just own free time and your hand. You can make it grow another inch in 6 months sticking to it.


Its probably not good though to try during a NoFap because have to play with your dick.

 

The answer to literally every anxiety about being able to please a woman is a) take care of yourself so that you dont look completley ridiculous b) dont be an asshole c) perform oral sex on her first.

Sexual intercourse has a bunch of variables right? Discrepancies in junk size, erections lubrication, crying children, duration, force, leg cramps, rug burns, it all goes to hell under the best of circumstances pretty regularly. Go down on her and the rest is profit.

 

Better press the ejection lever.

 

BPEL = Bone Press Erectile Length