Anybody Abstaining from PMO just for the Sexual Thrill?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Merak Megrez Mizar, May 29, 2019.

  1. Merak Megrez Mizar

    Merak Megrez Mizar Fapstronaut

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    Hiya!

    I'm Lance, I'm on day 8 without PMO. I've started abstaining because the idea of forcing myself to build up sexual tension is really exciting for me right now.

    Is anyone else rebooting just for the sexual exhilaration of seeing how far they can push themselves?

    Are their any groups or threads for recreational fapstronauts?
     
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  2. Black ∆ Fang

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    Count me too. Apart from a better life and becoming rich, I want to experience the best sex with my future gf.
     
  3. Avenging Marmoset

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    Well, most who are into SR per se are doing this recreationally and not (or at least not anymore, or maybe not to start with at all) as something in conjunction with quitting porn, so you could say that most on this forum are recreational NoFappers in some way or another. That's why I'm here. There are many benefits to SR, but yeah, I ain't gonna kid you, I'm also here for the purity of the TEST, to see if I can really go *that far*, see if I can face and master my urges, do something that almost no one else will ever do, see if I can undertake THIS kind of brute-force test of will! I've had recovered heroin addicts who do SR tell me that SR is harder than quitting junk since it's like having a needle and some tar in your pocket only you can't take it out and walk away. Plus it makes you very unique; in this age which is awash in sex and the paradigm is the shallow obsession with immediate gratification, to how many would doing something like this really occur, let alone actually do it? SR also puts you quite deservedly in an elite fraternity of which you can be proud, so enjoy some bragging rights, at least to yourself. I am going to abstain from getting off until I find a woman I can have sex with, and while I believe the attraction factor is real, that's still not why I'm doing it. I guess it makes me look forward to that person all the more, which is in itself a sexual thrill. SR makes it so the hornier you get without releasing, the more powerful you become through tramsmutation. That is a sexual thrill in my book.
     
  4. Black ∆ Fang

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    Great post. I liked it. Even I'm waiting for my S/O.

    BTW did it ever happened that you just watch erotic stuff but never M?
     
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  5. Avenging Marmoset

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    Thanks. I should not have, but I admit I did look at P when I was a few days into each streak I've done, but then did not do so again. Looking at P when on a streak does not make for high-quality SR even if you weren't a P addict to begin with. P is not part of the SR lifestyle. I;d rather be out there looking for real women anyway, letting the newfound attraction work for me.
     
  6. You can cosider me in the recreational group as well. Never had any ED or PIED issues. But I felt the thrill woud go away when I fapped too much.

    After nearly 3 months of NoFap (I did have sex and wet dreams) I feel even more horny than before - and therefor more manly and powerful.
     
  7. Hello
    Yes! thats so cool to feel superhorny lik never rbefore in your life.
    After 4 months, my boners were very hard. Like shit. Its hard like rock, I never had so hard erections :D
    I cant imagine how I can feel after 20 months for example :D
    And you can transmute that energy into other areas in your life, like education, career ect.
     
  8. ckfighter81

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    i do it for the increase in arousal
     
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  9. Yes, I´m in for it, too.
    It sounds funny, but I realised that abstaining from having any kind of sex(ual release) is my way of having a fulfilling sexual life. Don´t know why but it feels so right.
     
  10. I absolutely agree, but I don´t think that it will feel much different after 20 months. But it seems to be a very desirable goal.
     
  11. Feel like that for 4 months VS feel like that for 20 months :D
     
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  12. Merak Megrez Mizar

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    4 montnths!!? Holly shit that's a long time! I'm on day 29, and the tension is so distracting, I can't wait to start masturbating again lol!
     
  13. Merak Megrez Mizar

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    So last June, I threw in the towel and started masturbating again on day 27. I was planning on trying for 90 days, but had trouble even making it to thirty.

    This time I'm just trying for 30 days, and I'm on day 29. I'm gonna try and push it a couple days past 30 just for good measure, but the unrelenting tension has me quite beleaguered, and I'm ready to be done so I can finally masturbate again lol.

    My plan is to masturbate this Wednesday, and then see if I feel ready to start another stretch of abstinence. I figure I'll eventually work my way up to 90 days.
     
  14. Merak Megrez Mizar

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    Some time, I want to try and make myself edge for a certain amount of time every day or so for a couple weeks without comming, just to see how much I can take. Anybody ever tried that? Maybe that's that's what I'll do in November.

    Edging and pumping are supposed to help you have harder erections.
     
  15. gagate

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    This is like building a magnificent castle of sand, just to kick it and make it fall
     
  16. Merak Megrez Mizar

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    It's kndof like how they say it's not about the destination, it's about the journey.
     
  17. gagate

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    There won't be any destination because you are backtracking
     
  18. Merak Megrez Mizar

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    Our destinations are different. I'm not trying to get to the same place you are :)
     
  19. Yes 4 months.
    I was waking up with very strong erections ! :p
    I was horny like never before in my life :D I have got a GF thanks to nofap.
     
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  20. Infrasapiens

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    No. I do it to not be a pathetic man that likes to stare at unreachable and "fake" women.
     

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