Bored and lonely

Hey, I understand all about bored and lonely. I'm like that all the time from a lack of close friends. I just think about how bad I really want a girlfriend. I'm desperate for a companion.

 

I can relate to you bro. Am that introvert guy who doesn't have friends at all. Longest streak was 7 months and I felt so lonely because pmo was the only thing I knew. So I took up working out, I thought I wouldn't enjoy it but boy was I wrong. It's become my best hobby because it makes me feel awesome about myself and I actually got a lot of attention now( no brag).

 

Find something you like and put your energy into it. 1000 times better than going back to being a pmo addict.

 

Definitely man. follow your gut feeling and what you want at your very core. I broke down a little while ago when I thought of just how much time I have wasted with pmo. Being a coward and always taking the easy way out. All the best in the reboot bro. And about wanting a gf, don't worry too much about that srs. Sometime as you continue to reboot you will start to notice girls giving you looks and stuff it's crazy. I had a girl tell me am hot when I was at day 150+, I also had a girl send her friend to me and ask for my number. I was still a virgin and really nervous so most of it didn't go anywhere. My point is, everything is possible. We just have to keep pushing and reboot and everything will work.out. sorry for the wall of text. Stay king bro.

 

What's up brother, I have been a bit concerned about you. How is your weekend coming along? I read the entire thing and you just need to keep yourself motivated. You know, like in my case, I am watching a civil war documentary on youtube. From 1861 to 1865. I hope everything works out for ya. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Good luck.

 

I can agree- boredom and loneliness.. it makes my idle hands want to do things. Lol if I worked out more I’d be beach body ready, but that too gets old. I even learned knitting. I’m still going to try and be better. I like this site. It helps to know we are not as alone as we think we are, we have similar issues. Any way- Thanks for the post and stay strong.

 

Go have a beer somewhere and talk to people, maybe a girl you fancy.

 

yeah, with the guy from the movie halloween. lmao.

 

Oh noes, not Michael Myers. Wasn't he retarded/mentally ill growing up; that's how he became a slasher, that's all he's good at.

 

rolling eyes, yes mr. sarcastic, I have seen parts of the older movies but is just a movie, not based on any real life consequences. oooooooooh, make sure he doesn't come after you if you walk at night on the streets. haha. lol.

 

Go for a walk. Not a serious workout, but the blood flow, fresh air, and sunlight should lift your mood. Go to a coffee shop and chat with people.

Stay strong! Your brain's reward center is just feeling "blah" and it will pass over time. Just part of the healing process

 

yup, although I am starting to move on from that. Moving on to another subject.