I am a 30 years old engineer in South Africa and porn is my only hobby. I need to find a new one. I guess it makes me feel less alone?
Welcome! You're in the right place! I know what you mean about hobby. It will seem strange at first, all the "free time" you have when you give up porn. At least it has to me. The key, in my opinion, is to review things that used to make you happy before your addiction and focus on one (or more) of them. The gym? Writing? Learning a new language? Again, welcome! You'll find a lot of support here!
Thank you P-Free! Thanks for the encouragement. I need to make some big changes in my lifestyle - but so far so good!
You're welcome, Owl! Glad to help. It's a marathon, not a sprint, and it's all about progress vs perfection (as in nobody's perfect, but we can all get better). I'm glad it's so far, so good! I need to make some changes, too. We'll get there!
