Can only cum from hardcore porn

Yours sounds to be quite a common problem and possible to reverse.

One question - are you able to cum when masturbating yourself in front of a girl?

 

You have Death Grip at the very least

 

First thing you need to do is abstain from anything sexual for 2 weeks at minimum. No masturbation handjobs sex etc. Your dick needs to heal.

 

When you say you haven't yet - does that mean you haven't tried yet?

If so, and depending on how open/comfortable you and your girl are I recommend you tell her you've always fantasized about blowing a load over a beautiful girl's face and then give it a go. I strongly suspect you'll have no trouble.

I'm laughing at @MarinoBigFan1984's post. I didn't know the condition had a name, but I agree with him that you are most likely suffering from Death Grip.

 

Isn't it best to first satisfy himself that this has nothing to do with performance anxiety etc? That is still a possibility.

Once confirmed your prescription is the way to go. That's one over-pumped dick needing some tlc.

 

Sorry, just to be clear I understand - you can't cum from masturbating in front of your girlfriend?

 

How long has this been going on for?

How is she managing with it? Is she understanding or starting to get upset about it?

Is she into porn?

 

It sounds like the problem is only with you and has nothing to do with girls or your girlfriend (who sounds very hot!).

I assume you can come quite quickly when masturbating to HC porn.

That you can't masturbate while with your girlfriend suggests it's not actually Death Grip but the porn that is the main problem.

I recommend the following:
1) Take a commitment to stay away from porn of ANY type at least until things get back to normal
2) Tell your girlfriend that you're doing something (I don't know how much you want to share with her) and that you are going to DELIBERATELY avoid having an O for 2 weeks. And afterwards only with her
3) For those 2 weeks connect with your gf physically to please her (but no sex), and to be close to her, but no emphasis on you

Maybe others will disagree but I don't see how the back massager is relevant to this. It all sounds like a porn problem.

 

After 2 weeks see how you're feeling and then decide on your next step.

I suspect it will take longer than 2 weeks to get everything fully sorted, but step-by-step.

I'm sure others will offer their advice too.

Good luck.

 

Are you sensitive down there when you are masturbating to hardcore porn?

How long does it usually take you to cum?