Who else here is a webcam fapper? I go on Chatroulette like websites to fap with an audience. Since i have developed this addiction a few years ago, i very rarely masturbate to porn, which i find boring and impersonal (which probably truly is). I find having a true person companion while i do it more satisfying and interesting; Though im a straight male i often fap with guys in lack of girls, just to have some company at it.
Very interesting! I never heard of that special kind of fapping. So I’ve learnt something. Thanks! For me fapping together with other guys wouldn’t give me anything. But I can very well understand that you find P impersonal. If there would be more real women in the internet to chat with I would have probably tried this more often as well – in my addiction past, which is hopefully over now. Concerning the nofap idea I think there is no difference whether you fap to porn or with other people. Fapping is fapping.
I have been there. For me it was chaturbate. Would cam for hours daily. I finally stopped since I don't actually have a laptop anymore, just non flash capable portable devices. So it's not an option for me anymore. You could try uninstalling flash to stop yourself, this would be similar to installing an ad blocker.
I can relate to wanting to masturbate with other 'straight' guys. You feel you are bonding over a common feeling and your shared masculinity.
I can relate to the M with Chaturburbate. Would spend hours browsing, chatting and M slowly. Just like P at the end of the day.
Girls are very rarely if ever going to do this (Except the ones demanding money of course)... Even girls with their boyfriends wouldn't do this... Gay guys probably do this all the time. So I guess it is win win for them. Still it's weird porn which ever way you slice it... not healthy. Oh boy why the fuck did I have to google chaturbate.
I am with you. I did the same exact thing, and that ultimately is what made me want to stop. I came to the realization that I could not look my wife straight in the face and tell her about it. I decided it was time to quite so I wouldn't have to tell her about it. I want to leave that in the past.