confirmed severe PIED

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by naman121296, Aug 9, 2020.

  1. naman121296

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    it all started @ 9 june 2020, i suddenly got my dick dead to porn. i was not sure it was PIED or real ED ( i am 23 btw and pretty fit ) , it did hard mode for 35 days and on and off masturbation like once a week later on, but on no porn
    almost 2 months after i looked back at porn to check what happens and it was hard again, i looked at porn 2-3 times and the 4th time my dick is again dead, this confirms that do have PIED and now my nofap journey starts.

    but i have a question, does similar thing can also happen in real sex ??
     
  2. UnitedWeStand

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    You can't confirm PIED unless you try it on real sex many times. Even one attempt can't do this because there can be other reason for this situations included: performance anxiety, anxiety, tiredness, stress, bad eating habits etc. Don't test it to porn just wait to test it with a real person. I know that you need verification that your penis works but porn isn't even close to real sex. I have cured my PIED and this is not a right way to prove you have it or you are cured.
    Of course don't watch porn as it only harms yourself. Try to live your life to the fullest and don't stand back to having sex with a real person. Things can work or don't. I have failed many times through my PIED which sucks but now im cured and having great sex enjoying good time with my gf! If i did that you can too, and i was a virgin before i get my pied with an addiction background of 10 years. Thing wont be easy but i can assure you that it is worth every second of sobriety. Good luck, follow me and dare to ask me anything about my journey!
     
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  3. Toomuchh

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    Think you can talk a bit more about how you moved past PIED? I just started seeing this girl and everytime its time to fuck my boner just dies. It's really frustrating and it's making her doubt how attracted am I to her.
     
  4. naman121296

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    I dont feel excited to anything right now...
    Just numb, 4 days before i was feeling like a sex machine, i even got hard while watching news with woman anchor, i know that sounds vulgar, but when i stated going back to pics, then pics of pornstars, then porn it, i was less and less exited to these, i orgasmed 4 times in 3 days and boom again numb.
    Though situation is not that worse then when this first happened on 9 june.
     
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  5. naman121296

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    I honestly feel there is something more to real love than just sex... Right.
     
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  6. naman121296

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    I didn't cured my pied, because i am a virgin. I just confirmed that my ed is due to porn.
     
  7. UnitedWeStand

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    flatline and sexual exhaution
     
  8. UnitedWeStand

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    I recovered in a relationship so i had O's but not from piv sex. I had the same thing as you describe for you now.
    My best suggestion is:
    -Go hardmode for X days ( i recommend 30-90 days, depends on you.I never did hardmode for longer than 30 days but i felt that O's kept me back from healing faster). See how you feel after that, cause you may be stuck in a flatline- if you are just give it more time until it passes not rush having an orgasm if you feel like you dont need one. Just be careful cause after flatline you will experience very high urges, that is the time to have sex.
    -Get some good lifestyle choices (workout, meditate, eat well, sleep)
    -Do kegels (there are lots of routines on internet and guidance)
    -Focus on making your relationship ( Insist on other things than sex. Love, cuddles, speding good time together etc)
    - Focus on your self (take a hobby, do sth you like, self development in general.)
    -Never ever quit (you will relapse, cutting cold turkey isnt safe for ones psychology and health. Try to forgive yourself when this happens and just move on. Dont binge just because you relapsed one. Relapsing once wont ruin all progress that nonsense ( i watched p for some hours before a couple days but it didnt affect me at all so this statement is invalid). And always strive to make your next streak a couple days or months longer. This is necessary. Of course i dont encourage you to relapse after you pass your previous record, if you can still go on do this but if you cant do this just wait a couple more days (say one week after you realise that you cant hold on anymore- AFTER PASSING YOUR PREVIOUS RECORD!) and then do it! Dont binge also!
    Do those above and you will heal faster than just following random stuff. Good luck!
     
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  9. Alex__13

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    Same situation happened to me 5 years ago!
    That time I did pmo several times a day.
    I noticed a gradual decrease in erection but I could not stop ...
    Then one day I didn't have an erection even on porn ... My dick it dead, suddenly I wasn't interested porn anymore, nothing excited me anymore ...
    I didn't know what happened for about 2 years. Then I heard about the effects of pmo ... Unfortunately I haven't been cured for 5 years.
    I highly recommend hard mode not to have an orgasm for as long as possible, and you can only hope that you will heal, I have not succeeded so far.
     
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  10. UnitedWeStand

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    Do you mind asking you about your nofap streaks? Because it seems that you say 5 years isnt enough.
     
  11. -ChangeYourLife-

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    Can you get some involuntary erections?
     
  12. Stp890

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    nice and encouraging write up,how long had you been on hardmode?have you suffered from PE?
     
  13. UnitedWeStand

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    @Stp890 Thanks for the kind words! Im doing no pmo in a relationship for nearly three years but have many relapses as well. I have some no O periods even with sex with the maximum one of 30 days. I had some issues with PE but no constantly (mine was due to too tight pelvic floor- i suggest reverse kegels. They do wonders) . I suggest no sex too for a number of days (say 45-90) for best results!
     
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  14. naman121296

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    yes @ night times i can feel
     
  15. -ChangeYourLife-

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    Are you having stress lately?
     
  16. naman121296

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    i am stressed, but bad thing was that i was using porn to relieve my stress, which is guess was the worst decision, that i think maintained the stress cycle = > stress => porn => stress => again porn. so on for months i guess.
     
  17. naman121296

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    i feel so bad on waking up after sleep....
    i feel like i have no emotions at all.....
    my tool feels dead like its not there any more.....
    only time i can get erection is at night when i suddenly wake up, or wake up to pee.. that too is far from complete like 70% only. but its there
     
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  18. Alex__13

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    I have same simptoms 5 years... Nothing changes
     
  19. -ChangeYourLife-

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    What have you tried so far to change your situation?
     
  20. Stupidbeginner

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    Okay guys after a long period being inactif I will post on this thread, I had a streak of 90 days or more in this period I did radical changes in my life in general.. Concerning psychical changes benefits were huges and I mean that. Even sexually things were improving but like most of other members I was in hurry so I tried to have sex with 2 differents girls and it was à failure.. Then I come back to porn and more hardely than before. Now I regret it because even if was not cured it was flatline or call it what U want but I had at least a hhealthier penis yes my érections were verry hard now I can tell the differennve. Conclusion : we may need help of sexologist because the conséquences of pied are distructinng psychicly speeking so its pied + performance anxeity but NOFAP is 100% real and now I started my journey again.
     
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