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Continuous Failures.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Diveintospiritualism, Jul 8, 2020.

  1. Jul 8, 2020 #1
    Diveintospiritualism

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    Hi. This is a 23 year male from South Asia. I started my nofap journey on 8th February. The biggest reason for starting the same was- to achieve career goals. Now exactly 5 months into this, I have experienced repeated failures. Though I have reduced the frequency of M to around once a week but I want to go clean for longer periods. I want to go clean till eternity but my failures are putting me down. The biggest streak I achieved was of 20 days. Recently, I have been continuously failing in the 5-7 day window. Also the main reason for me failing to is to fall for paid Skype calls. This in addition to causing physical impact also impacts me negatively in economic sense and I end up wasting my parents hard earned money.I get physically drained out after this activity and a period of drowsiness and lack of motivation follows. Please help me get out of this, howsoever. I will always be grateful. Thank You.
     
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  2. Jul 8, 2020 #2
    Prince6543

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    This is exactly similar to my story. Starting in February. 20 day streak, then relapse, then lost of 7 day streaks and relapse. Keep going you will be able to even a achieve a 45 day streak like me and will be willing to go uptop 90 days or even more until you get ehat you want
     
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  3. Jul 8, 2020 #3
    BigBadWolf_27

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    Hello.
    I feel you man, relapsing after that long time of being clean can be tough, but with enough willpower you can get back on track. It's depends on your attitude. Just imagine that state of mind, when you're feeling full of energy and motivation, proud of yourself. Everybody have own struggles and reasons to stop compulsive masturbation and porn use. Use this struggles and problems as a fuel to keep going, no matter of failures. Even when you're failing at something you can still learn new, interesting things about yourself, just don't give up and try again.
     
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  4. Jul 8, 2020 #4
    Diveintospiritualism

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    At present I am not aiming for any specific number of days. This is due to the fact that I consider this act as disgusting and want to remove this completely. I believe once I get past 10 day mark, things might turn out to be somewhat easier. Btw are you from India?
     
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  5. Jul 8, 2020 #5
    BigBadWolf_27

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    No, I'm not from India. With time things will get easier, but you need to remain focused, even after a few months of successful streak you can slip up. Confidence is good, but common sense is even better.
     
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  6. Jul 9, 2020 #6
    Prince6543

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    Not 10 days, it's 30 days considering you didn't try to watch porn or some other erotic online content during that time. And BTW, dont reveal my identity:rolleyes::p
     
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