Cured?

I've been following nofap for quite some time but this is my first post. I have found it to be extremely helpful. A little background on me. Like most of you I have struggled with this addiction for a long time, however, I have had long periods of success from time to time without PMO. I'm currently at about 90 days.

The thing that I want to say is in response to posts I see quite a few times about being cured. I don't want this to be discouraging to anyone, but I want people to have realistic expectations. In my opinion there is no such thing as cured from this addiction. The better words in my opinion are "healed" and "prepared". Healed in the sense that you no longer feel the pain of what you have done in the past. Prepared in the sense that you know how to deal with temptations when they come in the future, as they undoubtedly will. Personally I don't think there will ever be a time when I can consider my self cured and let my guard down. That over confidence has caused me to relapse in the past. Perhaps other people disagree with my view on what we should be aiming for, but I just want to express my opinion as to what realistic expectations should be. With that said, there is nothing that feels better then the healing that can come after some time away from this addiction. Let us all keep fighting.