dating questions

I'd say that's a good sign, yeah. If she didn't plan to ever talk to you again, she wouldn't need your last name.

Hm... this is a tough one because it very much depends on the woman.

But in my personal opinion, I would say it wouldn't be bad to contact her again, especially since it's been a few days and really only one small contact in the entire week, so it's not like you're bombarding her with texts or something. If you feel like you messed up and she may have been offended by you coming on too strongly, I would give her a call and tell her that and express your feelings, at least to some degree. (i.e., you might not want to say "I think you're my soul mate and I want to marry you tomorrow" or something crazy, but given the fact that she can't read your mind, it wouldn't be a bad idea to let her know that you feel something deeper with her than just any ol' date. Especially since you may have been a bit too physical for her liking, so quickly, it might be a good reassurance for her to know that you're actually interested in her for good, deep reasons, not just... well, you know, the other stuff.)

I think you've waited an appropriate amount of time for it to be acceptable and not too "needy" for you to call and let her know how you're feeling. Worst case scenario, she doesn't reciprocate, and you can move on knowing that you did everything you could have. And also, you won't have to have any regrets looking back, thinking you may have made her uncomfortable or something. Once that's been cleared up, your mind can be free, one way or the other.

Good luck, Phibz! She sounds like a special lady!

 

Dealing with the opposite sex can definitely leave anyone feeling lost. lol we're a confusing bunch, humans.

 

Hm... another tough question that depends on the woman. lol

See, I'm more traditional, so I would enjoy a guy telling me very clearly what his "intentions" are in dating me, so I know that he's interested in something real. But obviously that's not exactly the norm these days. I suppose you should give it some time, so she doesn't feel like you're hounding her or anything. But maybe after a week or so, if you haven't heard anything and you still feel like you really want to pursue this, ask her out again? Rather than just having conversation, if you actually ask her if she wants to go on a date with you again, that will be kind of a sure fire way to get an answer, one way or the other, about whether or not she's still interested. I mean, sure you want to give her space, but you shouldn't have to sit around waiting on her for the rest of your life. You deserve to have some clarity as well.

 

I would wait another day then ask her if you can go out over the weekend. As for what happened, she was ok making out that evening,but probably wasn't into it in the morning. Seems like evenings are the time for lovin. Take it slow if you go,out in the day,and maybe next time you are in an evening date thing will happen.