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Day 1 - First Step Forward

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Onefootforward, Dec 6, 2019.

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  1. Dec 6, 2019 #1
    Onefootforward

    Onefootforward Fapstronaut

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    Hello to all!

    Posting here in hopes that telling my story and joining the community helps inspire me forward. I attempted to start my NoFap journey last week but after 6 days... back to day 1.

    I am addicted to findom, basically a very expensive form of pornography for me. I’ve been into it for at least 12 years... but not until recently did I recognize it as something I depend on and cannot quit. I spend WAY too much on it. It is a compulsion. But it makes me feel so guilty and frustrated that I do it. I’m honestly worried that I’ll never be able to stop. Lots of anxiety and pain. I have tried and failed many times now. It cannot go on...

    BUT, here I am. I believe that one day I can do it. And believing the first step on the journey is today. Doing my best to be kind to myself, and to be optimistic. Separately I am seeking and receiving professional help. I am going to do my best to go all in on sobriety from this.

    Thank you in advance of any support you might provide. Any and all tips and advice you might have are appreciated.
     
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  2. Dec 6, 2019 #2
    femdomsucks17

    femdomsucks17 Fapstronaut

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    i have taken this femdom porn seriously and have been trying to stay away and i have stayed clean for 220 days in last 250 days...the temptation has reduced for sure but whenever i find myself watching again i get carried away and start watching again and also i'm still submissive in person..i hit gym regularly and take good care of myself and i look superfit in person but still it didn't increase my confidence level and i'm unable to increase my confidence and masculinity...


    so this time i'm going to play this game in a different way...imo counting the number of clean days is not going to change you into a better person and not going to get rid of femdom thoughts nor going to increase your masculinity so this time as your always keeping the porn thoughts in your mind so you are always justone step closer to start watching porn again...i'm planning to switch to mma training from this month instead of renewing my gym membership...i believe mma keepy myself busy and can make me get me out of my comfort zone,overcome my fear,increase my self confidence,be more social and most importantly get me away from being submissive and increase my masculinity and also make me deal my life problems like a man..i'm not telling yoy to do mma but engage yourself in something new that will make you get out of your comfort zone
     
    femdomsucks17, Dec 6, 2019
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  3. Dec 6, 2019 #3
    fedmom

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    There's a thread in my profile on this. See under "information" then "find all threads". You can't get rid of femdom fetishes by doing nofap.
     
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  4. Dec 6, 2019 #4
    Onefootforward

    Onefootforward Fapstronaut

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    Wow thank you both so much. In the last I’ve made it close to the 30 day mark, but nothing as far as you have gone. When I had success I was focusing on taking care of my emotional health. My therapist and I are trying to map the behavior and what drives it, then find a hobby that solves a similar space in my head.

    Hope that in 220 days I can be at the space in my recovery.
     
    Onefootforward, Dec 6, 2019
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