Do Something w/ Your Life

well even i'm in similar situation. i'm 26. no real life friends. no career. no gf. sexual past is full of regrets. spent all life fapping n watching porn. wish i had put more effort n taken life seriously.
truth is there is no afterlife. at least i dont believe in one. this life is all we have. at times i crack silly jokes with some folks here. it gives me some dopamine. it's all right.

we cant compare our lives with our colleagues. everyone grew in different circumstances.

 

Dude get a full time job delivering at a pizza place. Dead serious. It's very easy and the pay averages about 13$ an hour once you include tips.

 

I agree with you, doing something with your life should be everyone's primary goal.

 

stop focusing on the stuff you don't have them focus on the things you do have. You have a wonderful mom who sports you, roof over your head for shelter, food and liquids to sustain and nourish you, your eyes work, your hands worked, you know his works, and I assume the rest your body works properly? So what right now you not focused and you don't have a career. Your healthy person and is able to do it and get a career and have a goal.

We always focus on the stuff that we don't have but rarely do we focus on the things that we have until it's gone. One day your mom will not be around. One day you'll have to take care of herself hundred percent. One day you'll be so bold that you will be able to walk or see nice things because your eyes don't work anymore.

With enough pain we always find a way to pick ourselves up.

 

Yeah, iceman said it. Focus on what you have not on what you don't have only IF you had done otherwise in the past. Delving into the past only works when you extract useful and practical advice from your experience. Life without pain is unimaginable if it were to be a life worth living. All great accomplishments require pain, without pain, we would not have reached the point where we build our character. Now, it's true that you could be in pain and really not get the feeling of fulfillment out of it. However, that's your choice buddy. It's up to you whether you'll get the good kind of pain, which will energize your being and cultivate your soul. Look at your life and imagine you are in your 20's. Knowing what you know now, what would you do differently? Ponder about it, develop a strategy, a way of life to avoid these next 10 years. You have the experience, now it's a matter of putting it into action. And boom there you go, you have grasped some part of this thing we call life.

 

I know what you are feeling. Ehh deppresion, constatlny thoughts of "anyway its too late to do this" then 3 years after asking myself" why i hadnt done it" Fuucking siick circle. Lost past and lost future, yea. Try read book Power of Now by Ekchart Tolle, it really helped with depression and i look on world diffrently. This book is perfect for our times.