Emotional conecition to porn

I experimented something similar.

When the porn introduces in my life, I meet performers that make videos that satisfied my fantasies, really personal fantasies. The impact of this kind of videos is that was one of the principal reasons that my problem with the porn start, see thoses videos are my priority and chat with the perfomers a goal to make real…

Sometimes I still have the impulse to look the way to contact to this people, but the true is that is just work for them (ok, the porn industry is very deeper and I know that many people participate in it for coercion, no option, but it is another comversation). I mean that one step that i make and probable you should do it too is that recognize that the people in the screen aren’t real, they are characters, and if you look in them real love and feelings, you waste your time… hard, i know, but maybe can help you.
I’m open to follow this conversation, I would like to know your feelings and thinks. See you.

 

It's 100% illusion. Porn does not care about you. The performers don't care about you. They are real people, but you aren't real to them. You're just another stooge, a sucker to them, and they'll exploit you & suck you dry. Ah shit, I mean not in a good way. Like a bloated spider draining a fly, not... you know.

Dump the fantasy, get back to the real world. You can have a fulfilling relationship with genuine connection, but not if P is occupying that sexual and emotional space in your psyche.